Last month my dad told me that his company was making him move to Florida in September. It's only for 6 months but right now we live in Maryland. I've been in a relationship with my BF for over 3 years and we just turned 18, so technically we could move out but my family gave me such short notice. Lately our relationship hasn't been a walk in the park and I don't think it could survive if I move next month. Should I...
1. Move with my parents and hope for the best
2. Get another job RIGHT NOW and search for a roommate (which could waste time that we could be spending together)
3. Try really hard to convince my parents to let him stay with us
2007-08-03 12:02:25 · 8 answers · asked by Nell18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are going to be 18, so you have some choices to make (on your own). It isn't the old 8 Ball toy where you ask a question, shake it and turn it over to view its answer. This is your life. Don't make choices that you will regret later. If you seriously love the guy and the guy loves you, then maybe you should leave it up to him. If he loves you he should be making the choice of trying to find a place for you and him, if he doesn't than you should leave with your parents. If your guy loves you so much, he will do anything to be with you. If that means working a dead end job or searching long and hard for a home for you and him, he'll do it because he loves you. Your guy should consider that if he doesn't want you to leave with your folks. The worse thing you could do is move in with him at his families home. It is up to you. Whatever you do, don't chase him. If he loves you he will not let you go. Take care!
2007-08-11 10:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can delete question #3 because no parents in their right minds will allow a boyfriend to live with their 18 year old unmarried daughter.
By your own words, since the relationship has been rocky, why try to hold on to it? You're young and have your whole life ahead of you.
Even if you stayed, got a job and a roommate, is he worth it? Apparently not, if the relationship "hasn't been a walk in the park." If the relationship cannot survive six months' separation after being together 3 years, then it's not worth having.
Move with your parents and don't just hope for the best, be the best you can be.
If the two of you get together when you return, good. If the two of you don't get together when you return, then that's good too. In other words, life still will go on.
2007-08-11 02:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since it hasn't been "a walk in the park" lately, then you might be better off to go on & move away. It may save you alot of heartbreak later on down the road.
Who know's it may bring ya'll closer together again.
Florida is a nice place too.
2007-08-03 12:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 18 and the relationship has been challenged. Move with your parents and see what life has in store for you.
2007-08-03 12:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Karmakitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with your parents, Florida is a great place(I live here!!!) if this relationship hasn't been so great lately, see if a little time apart helps, if it doesn't, there are so many nice guys here you should have no problem finding a new one!
2007-08-10 10:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since it hasn't been that great you should do the first one, move with your parents and hope for the best.
2007-08-11 05:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your parents.
2007-08-10 15:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by happy@50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-07 20:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋