My neighbor is a really big christian and every time she sees me and my girlfriend she always says we are going to go to hell unless we stop our "sinful" act and get saved. I know she thinks she is trying to help me but its quite annoying. How can I get her to stop?
2007-08-03 11:32:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Have her arrested for harassment.
2007-08-04 09:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chris J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judgment and fear are really not the way to go when you are trying to convince someone to convert.
Ya probably should try to "kill her with kindness" just to keep the peace, and make your point. .
Next time she starts in on you just say, "Ah, I appreciate your concern. I know that you care and your door is always open when I am ready to discuss this." Don't feed anymore into the conversation. Change the subject or walk away.
This should stop her in her track, simply because it communicates "I hear you...message received"
If that doesn't work then you may just have to be honest. Tell her that You refuse to base your faith on fear. If and when you decide to convert it will NOT be because you are avoiding hell.
Good Luck!
2007-08-03 18:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you know she is trying to help you, but you have to make your own decisions. Ask her for literature, and maybe she will quit bugging you. I am a Christian, but I don't get pushy. You have too make your own choice to whether you want to go to heaven or hell. She is scaring you away. There is a right way and a wrong way. She should be praying for you not yelling at you. Talk to her and tell her that you are annoyed.
2007-08-03 18:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by salvation 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...well i am not the best but this might help,
You could talk to her and say I appreciate your concern but i would really like it if you could stop borthing me about me and my girlfriend going to hell.I can make my own decisions and and say sorry not meaning to hurt her feelings but to just stop!.....
2007-08-03 19:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kennamayee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you will bring the marshmellows, and accept your fate in hell for being homosexual.
if she will bring the hot dogs and accept hers for being a judgemental bigot.
Judgement is reserved for god. she has no right to judge you.
and as directed by Jesus she is to love you. and loving you does not include treating you differantly because you are different from her in belief/race/or sexual preferance.
2007-08-03 18:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that she has done her duty and the rest is left up to you, so she should back off.
2007-08-03 18:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question her faith. Every time she talks of god tell her she's lying and that she really doesn't believe all that nonsense. Then call her a hypocrite. Works everytime.
2007-08-03 18:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Shawn B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her to shut the F--K up before you put an
A-S whupping on her.
2007-08-03 18:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by honshu01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her not to judge, and to quit being an ******
or she'll be burning with you.
2007-08-03 18:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Joy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy her a copy of The God Delusion - or rebuke her in the name of satan.
2007-08-03 18:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamstuff Entity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋