For the last two or three works, my girlfriend and I haven't been able to see each other. Something always comes up, she has to work, the baseball game gets rained out, and today her mom broke her wrist so she has to be home to take care of her.
I called her this afternoon and was a little bit fusterated. I told her that i could pick her up and everything so we could make tonite work. She told me she had to be home to take care of her (even though her sis and dad would be home). I know she still likes me and everything, (her mom is actually hurt i know). But i can't help but feel i was a little pushy and cold on the phone (i was really looking foward to tonite).
Should I call her tonite and apoligize? I'm so fusterated with never being able to see her with her job. Or do you think I should just leave her alone and see if she'll call me (in our whole relationship she's only called me twice, she expects me to make the calls)?
2007-08-03 11:25:41 · 10 answers · asked by triath91 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should definitely let her call you.
I know it will be hard to do for you. But honestly it will work best.
if she does not care enough to make the call it's not worth it.
give her some time she will probally call after a couple days.
if she asks why you did not call just say you thought she wanted some space.
Paul
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2007-08-03 11:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Paul M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait for her to call. Romance is a pretty powerful thing. And, if she wants it from you she'll make time for it. Not making time is her way of telling you she's not really interested in a relationship with you. Usually girls will talk with their boyfriends a lot during these times, for support.
Backing off may make her miss you and call you. Sometimes people don't know what they have until it's gone. Or, she may never call, and you will realize the relationship was all you, and is now a zero. But you must take the chance. If you're not feeling wanted in this relationship it cannot be a good relationship. It will be a butt kissing relationship.
2007-08-03 18:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you two options: 1.Do something else tonight, I know you really wanted to see her but if she feels the need to take care of her mom, let her. And let her call you! She needs to make a call every once in a while.
OR...
2. Surprise her by going over to her house with a little "get well" basket. Take her mom some flowers (as well as your girlfriend, maybe a single rose) and just get her mom some things she might need to feel better while she's down (Little plillow, asprin, bandages, something a little cheesy but genuine.) Hey it doesn't have to be anything big, just the thought that counts. PLUS you'll get to see your girlfriend, and maybe she'll want to go out with you after you show up at her house.
2007-08-03 18:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky Colette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave her alone,
if she cares about you she'll call.
Sounds to me like she is making excuses.
With two more people home with her mom,
why would she have to always be there?
Anyway her mom must have two hands ,
she could surely use the other one to do some
things for herself.
Good Luck
2007-08-03 18:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by atlanta_girl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HER and apoligize!!! It will mean alot to her and will let her know that you understand the situation. I just got in the same situation with the guy I'm seeing and he wasn't able to come to my birthday party. I was really upset with him but he called a few days later and explained everything. (I hadn't seen him for 2 or 3 weeks)
2007-08-03 18:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her an apologize and explain why you acted the way you did. ya some girls don't like calling guys they think the guy is the one to call..kinda childish but some girls think like that. I don't see why you can't go over and see her for a few minutes. Even if she can't go out, couldn't she step out of the house to see you for a few minutes to talk infront of her house?
2007-08-03 18:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by moose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem really committed to this relationship. The question is...is she. I know you have time for her but...does she have time for you. Its also a matter of physical communication. You should find time to talk to her about "our" relationship. Yes she loves you but does she show it. And if she doesn't have time for you now...when will she? I think you should apologize to her maybe go to her house and help her out. Show how much you care and talk to her too good luck!
Cindy N
2007-08-03 18:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her call. And don't wait around for it either, I'm sure you can find something to do. Hang in there.
2007-08-03 18:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should apoligize......its just a phase and u will get ova it jus make sure when u do c her u will show her how much u have missed her
2007-08-03 18:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by crazynamug1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for her to call........if she doesn't, move on!
2007-08-03 18:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋