...and these guys all say the're in love with me, thr's definitely some serious attraction. and when i compare them to my fiance, i feel like i'm more attracted to them!!! is it jst because i can't have them?
2007-08-03 10:43:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think you'll have a good life with your fiance, then don't like the attractions get in the way. It's not worth throwing away a good relationship because you're attracted to other men. If you're not going to be happy, then don't get married, but most people get cold feet :-P
2007-08-03 10:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Temari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the forbidden fruit aspect does have a lot of power. But if you're really this attracted to this many guys, it's time to examine your relationship with your fiance. Do you really love him? Or are you going to run off with someone else first chance you get?
Decide fast, before you tear out your fiance's heart.
2007-08-03 10:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is how you feel - you aren't ready to get married. You may love your fiance, but not enough for a marriage. Not yet.
Sounds like you need to still be single and date around a bit before you make a lifelong commitment of marriage.
2007-08-03 10:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Brn_Eye_Grl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl are always attracted to what they can't have. even if they had the best of everything they would still want something else. it's just human nature. the trick in ur case is that u have to learn to walk away from temptation. when i was married i couldn't say no to other women. needless to say i'm not married now because of that problem. so get control over it or don't waste ur time getting married.
2007-08-03 11:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by john m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, give the man his ring back. You aren't ready and you'll cause both of so much pain if you go through with this b4 resolving your feelings.
2007-08-03 10:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by miggyboo2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
partly that.. .also... could just be getting cold feet as well.. also.. there's a thing where attraction is more when someone has someone else... you also probably give off an air of confidence because you do have someone to go back to...
2007-08-03 10:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must not love your fiance then. and you should call of the wedding before you drag it out too long. your not ready to get married.
2007-08-03 10:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by linney04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant stop seeing how attractive break off the engagement and say you arnt ready cuz it sounds like you arnt
2007-08-03 10:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off your engagement and go back to being a hoodrat. im sure you;ll be happier.
2007-08-03 10:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋