my relatives are so evil and they wish me bad. All the time. They cannot be happy in my happiness and they get so happy when i am miserable. what do i do??
2007-08-03 10:23:43 · 8 answers · asked by Habiba C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Move away from them and don't talk to them. Sometimes people are just evil and you need to cut out the bad parts. It hurts for a while but it eventually heals.
2007-08-03 10:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by meissen97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be thankful you do not have the same character flaw. Petty jealousy and coveting the good fortune of others is wrong. Here's the sad thing, your relatives don't even have the class and decency to hide their jealousy. Pathetic.
I know its disappointing when you can't share your successes with family. But, always remember, this is not your problem. This is someone else's character flaw, not your's. Unfortunately, they don't even realize they are behaving this way and also don't understand that it's wrong. You can point this behavior out to them if you want, but don't expect them to change. They'll probably just get more irritated with you.
Screw'em is my advice! No friend or family member is worth your time if they behave this way.
2007-08-03 17:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same kind of relatives. there is nothing you can do about them, except to have as little contact with them as possible; they're in the northeast, i'm in florida. don't let them have so much power over you, and give up the sitcom idea of happy families. i treat them as business acquaintances that i have to deal with for a few hours when occasions demand that we be together. if there's one or two you can get along with, spend as much time with them as possible at the event. and remember, the clock keeps ticking-eventually it's time to leave.
2007-08-03 17:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, maybe what you are doing is evil in THEIR eyes and they are just trying to protect you.
If they really are happy when you're miserable and you're not doing anything wrong, then maybe move away from them.
2007-08-03 17:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boss says "the best revenge is to live well." So, be happy and live to make yourself happy. Don't let them bring you down.
2007-08-03 17:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't associate with them. Make your friends your new "family."
2007-08-05 02:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should chokeslam those sons of guns. The CHOKESLAM FROM HELL!!
2007-08-03 17:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so the drama
a for instance please
2007-08-03 17:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by firechap20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋