Should I talk to my step-daughter about why she was there?

Question

I was taking a shower and my wife's 22 year old daughter came into the bathroom and stood in front of the door and stared at me. It made me feel real uncomfortable but I don't want to make a bad situation worse but making a big deal of it. Also I haven't told my wife what happened....should I?

Answer 1

Tell you wife immediately!!! You want to keep that trust issue taken care all the time.

This incident will come up when you least expect it...if your wife hears about it from her daughter...no matter what you tell her after the fact, it will seem like you were keeping things from her.

As to the why the daughter stood there, since you did not address that issue right at that moment and I can understand what must have been going through you mind, I would not address it with her now.

Also, you don't know what level of privacy these women had before you arrived. Talking with your wife will answer all these questions. If needed, she will address her daughter!!! I certainly would.......

Answer 2

Well it's HER daughter, so you need to tell your wife. This kind of behavior from an adult woman (your stepdaughter) IS a big deal. I don't mean you should shout or anything, but firmness of some sort is required. It's your wife's job, though.

Answer 3

maybe you should talk to your wife about it and see what she says about it but would she believe you or think you was making something up and get upset with you? i mean why would she do this? i dont know. how about comfronting your stepdaughter and ask her why she did that? its a tricky sitaution.maybe she finds you attractive, i have no clue it could be many reasons y. good luck

Answer 4

No harm no fowl. Just let it pass.
Keep your distance though.
Avoid situations where you would alone in the dark together.

Answer 5

yes you should and tell her you don't understand why she did ask her to plz talk to her daughter because you don't want her hating you.