Hi,
I have a question I've scoured the internet to find an answer to, but with little success. My fiance and I have a great sex life, and she often will orgasm 3 times to my one. Sometimes we have extended periods of foreplay beforehand, and other times only a few minutes. Once we get into the actual sex, it can last from between 20 minutes to 45 before I orgasm with her. We have a few number of usual positions, but we almost always end up with her on top. After about 10-15 minutes of activity, that number becomes more limited because she says 'it's too much' - eg, the stimulation in a certain position is overwhelming or too intense. Most of the time while we are having sex, she stimulates herself with her hand, and says that without that, the sensation is too intense.
My question is, could her self-stimulation over-stimulate her in the long run and make it 'too much' for certain positions? Has anone else experienced this? Could my size or shape influence this condition? Thnx!
2007-08-03 08:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Wow! You are lucky! From what I have, er, read, self-stimulations can increase the sensation, not make it bearable. It is more likely that she "over-stimulates" herself. Try variety. Positioning makes a lot of difference...As does aging!
2007-08-03 08:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, lucky gir ! i believe she is just one of those lucky creatures who are so senstive that orgasm quickly. if she stimulates herself with hand she is actually increasing the sensation. also, a position with her on top is almost always preferred by women to achieve orgasms if they cannot have it in any other position. your size or shape does not influence her, remember its not the size of the wand, its the magic within. just change some positions and ask her to abstain from stimulating herself until you are both close and want to climax together. also, try to interest her in stimulating you while you are both having sex. scourge the internet about how women can stimulate a man additionally during sex, not just through intercourse. good luck and i will say again, lucky girl !
2007-08-03 08:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by montana_leather_thong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are clueless...she wants to have a orgasm, and it isn't happening with penetration alone. The other orgasms' shes haveing she is faking. I've done this and sooo many of my girlfriends have. It's nothing about your ability, or how much she loves you. It just doesn't happen with intercourse alone for many women. Enjoy the show. Fantasize while she masterbates. It will loosen her up and help her feel more comfortable and eventually it might happen with just you. I don't care how many answers you get to this question. This is your answer.
2007-08-03 08:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is completely normal. Our bodies are not machines. it is wonderful that she can tell you and that she is listening to her body.
2007-08-03 08:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Crocus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
45 min....r u superman?
2007-08-03 08:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by robbie-5675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lazy and tired. That's why she wants to change.
2007-08-03 08:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by TomHyberger 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋