2007-08-03 07:01:08 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes, even though they already know, you should still formally invite them. Also, a lot of family members like to keep the invitation as a keepsake.
2007-08-03 08:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by corinne1029 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that nut alone. Because first of all you said it she calls the shots and she did she called the shots in that email saying that she is not attending the wedding. So what do you need an invitation for. You already said you want no parts of it. I know that is your sister and I don't know if she was speaking at that time in the form of anger. But one thing I do know is that in September is your wedding day and this day should be about you and not her!!!! So make it about you and not her! People piss me off truly when it comes to weddings they think it is about them and it don't have S''' to do with them. They are to be happy for the person that is getting married. Everyone can't always have the spotlight. I am sick and tired of it. She had her day she did the bridesmaids dresses, flowers and etc the way she wanted to this is your day and you will do the thinks you want to do. She may bully everyone but she can't go on like that. The world don't revolve around her. She needs to get over her self and I won't pacify her, and it is good that she sent those emails to everyone else so they know why she is not there and it is not because you didn't invite her it is being she uninvited herself. She will be ok and you will too! Good luck and congrats!
2016-05-17 08:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by velvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...it's not "necessary" if you talk with them on a fairly routine basis. But you should ask them first if it is okay that you don't send one.
Should you, sure... everyone wants to feel included and have a keepsake.
But when my brother got married, they thought they may be short 1 or 2 invitations, and would have to purchase 25 more when they just needed a few, so I told him of course, don't worry about sending me one. Worked out he had enough anyway.
so...if you have enough, send one, if not either make up a special invitation for them on your computer or ask if it is okay not to send.
2007-08-03 07:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by apbanpos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as a matter of courtesy and respect, especially if you live far away from them. You can send them the regular "formal" invitation, but include a personal note to them, or talk to them about the details so it doesn't feel so stiff and formal sending your family an invitation.
2007-08-03 07:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Alisha 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you don't mail it to them, at least give them one by hand.
Many parents and siblings would like to keep an invitation as a keepsake . . . . even if they already know they are invited.
2007-08-03 12:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Suz123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you saying you are inviting them and you dont know whether to send them an invitation or are you asking do you have to invite them apparently none of them are in the wedding so i wouuld send anyone i want to be there an invittation so noone will feel left out but if you are comfortable without sending them one and just telling them you can do that to it just depends on what type of relationship all of you guys have
2007-08-03 07:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt send them to parents unless you dont see much of them, but if they are involved in the planning and what not thats just a huge waste of paper to send them an invite...I'm pretty sure they already know they are invited. as for siblings...if htey live at home then no...not really necessary but if they live on their own and have their own family and stuff them you might want to give them one.
2007-08-03 07:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you send one to everyone you want there, including the wedding party.
Most likely your parents would want to keep the invitation as a memory :)
2007-08-03 08:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the parents live far away, then I prefer you & your significant other to hand it in person over a lunch or dinner ... it is a nice gesture & like a memorabilia for them. As for siblings, even if they live with you, give them one too. Number one, they will feel important & number two, no excuses to have forgotten.
2007-08-03 07:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If they live close by you may hand deliver them rather than mailing them out, but they defiantly should receive a formal invite.
2007-08-03 07:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋