I recently broke up with a women i been seeing for 18 months because she had a man even though i had knew this. She told me she plan on leaving him but it was hard to do since her kid was attach to him.So we basicly had an under cover relationship i was sick of coming home to my self and knowing she was going home to him We both didnt excpet to feel the way we did to have lust turn into love we became best of friends there was nothing i wouldnt do for her and there was nothing she did for me but i love and i thought could out last the pain however it didnt so last firday i went to her house and told her man to tell our girl to give my key it was like 2am and she was shock as **** to see me even though am not the type of person to do such a thing however i did. i was sick of her hurting me and felt it was time to end this game she was playing with my heart since that firday i have not spoked with her and it killing me but i know if i call her am not moving on and she wont get the point
2007-08-03 06:59:04 · 11 answers · asked by angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firday she had her daughter call me and i was like now what am going do i know she dosent have nothing to with what going on here and wont understand whats going on i didnt know what to say nor how to re~act
It came from a text message with her telling me her daughter wanted to talk with me now so i told her to call me when she called me she kept asking me what i was doing i just said am chillen what else can i say what am to do when i had a relationship with her daughter too and since am not over her and dont want to me contact my her nor ever see her agian
2007-08-05 07:29:14 · update #1
Yeah, there's no reason for you to stay on that roller coaster of pain. I hope you find someone else, who cares more about you and is....available.
I say a clean break is best. If she calls AFTER she's divorced her husband, or whatever, that's different, but otherwise.....just move on. It hurts, but it never, ever helps to call.
2007-08-03 07:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do is to at least talk to someone you can confide in even if its not her. But you really should get what you are feeling off of your chest before it turns into something more than what it is. I know because I have been there before. And I felt a whole lot better when I explained to the person how they were making me feel. So go ahead and do what you have to do to heal your heart. Believe me you won't regret it. Best of luck!
2007-08-03 14:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by SqueakyNVA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is some sort of sanctity in marriage am meant to comprehend, with the child in the scenario who is attached to his father how then did u expect her to leave them for u? since you even kept your r'ship a secret, its just for her convenience, all a sham. wish you open your eyes to see what a life you missing out here. move on now!
2007-08-03 14:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by benard o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...she was a cheater and that's not the kind of person you'd want in your life (I'd hope). Wait until you meet someone who has better values and concern about other people...and not just their own wants and lusts.
2007-08-03 14:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on and finding someone who will give you 100 percent is the best revenge!
Good for you !!!
2007-08-03 14:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing right don't let her manipulate you. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. I think you deserve better some you can go home to at night. Don't give in to her. Let her find another fool!
GOD BLESS : )
2007-08-09 19:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously had no intention of ever leaving him, you knew the score when you got together, next time look for someone unattached
2007-08-10 17:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep silence works the best. Just forget her and move on.
2007-08-03 14:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ignore her. there's no reason why you can't still be friends...
2007-08-11 01:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by spedhead:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO mother FUDGER!!!! its not cool to ignore!!!
2007-08-03 14:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋