so me and this girl from work started talking and we had been talking for about a month. we have made out alot and she said that she liked me alot more now than she did when she first met me. she also said that she wasnt talking to any other guys so i stopped talking to all the other girls. now sunday she told a girl at work that i was always around her and that she didnt like me, when of course we work together how am i not going to always be around u? then another girl at work told me last night that she had gone out on a date with another guy. p.s. these girls at work that told me this are my good friends so i dont think they would lie to me. what should i do about this situation?
2007-08-03 06:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop dating people at work
2007-08-03 06:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best answer I have about this question......STAY AWAY FROM RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK!!! Relationships that develop in the work environment are the hardest to get out of or control really as you have to see each other everyday that you work. I've tried to date many of my co-workers throughout different jobs, and none of them have worked and have caused me to lose or quit a few jobs.
2007-08-03 06:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by princess_of_manty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl might be confused or just afraid things are getting too serious. It doesn't sound like she's ready for a real relationship. If that's what you're looking for, I'd move on.
Good luck!
2007-08-03 06:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by skygirl_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating and Work is not good!!! Almost all of the time it ends up bad. But then there is that 5% that ends up together?
2007-08-03 06:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Brown eyed girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her that if she likes anyone else. If she does, forget her. If she says she doesn't then tell her what your friends told you. And possibly ask one of your friends to go out with each other just in front of your girlfriend and see what she does.
2007-08-03 06:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by kareena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing to do is move on to new relationships and treat her as a standard co-worker.
Otherwise this could get complicated at work. She has moved on.
2007-08-03 06:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her.. you deserve better than some girl who wants to go date and then drops you .. things will be very hard b/c she might make things in the office..but trust me dropping her would be the best thing
2007-08-03 06:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by sleepdeprived85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what is going on? She sounds like she wants to be a player. Let her go play with someone else.
2007-08-03 06:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, if you feel she is lying then forget her. but it all comes down to who you trust, your good friends or this girl you have known for a month.
2007-08-03 06:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Confuseddotcom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her about it! Not revealing names or anything but letting her know you kind of know and then just distance yourself from her. C'mon man...don't mess with work and hooking up...it messes up your enviorment!
2007-08-03 06:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋