2007-08-03 05:58:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
IT IS... but it sounds like your boyfriend was already faulty.
The Military TRIES to instill the correct values into recruits... and for the most part succeeds, but there are always those who are "bad-apples".
Dump the BF and move on
2007-08-03 06:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by mariner31 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
His values were taught to him by his parents. He doesn't understand the concept of loyalty and the military won't change that.
I once told my ex that he had no integrity (for lying, not paying his bills etc..) He went into this long explanation about how he did have integrity and that was the number one thing taught to him in boot camp and by the military. I guess he thought if he said he had it, he had-he just didn't understand he had to live it through his actions.
2007-08-03 14:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by lavender 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha, joining the military won't make you a saint. Just because some one is in the military doesn't mean the can't lie, cheat or steal, of course it's dis-encouraged, but we still do it. The military doesn't teach protocol on girlfriends either.
2007-08-03 14:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could it go back to the Rearing from his parents because lying is not a trait you get from any Branch of the military wish i could help more but , I was in the Army 4 years and it taught me allot of responsibility, loyalty, organization, and leadership.
2007-08-03 13:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Charles B 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The military never taught him to lie, he was probably very adept at it before he joined. Apparently, you just finally managed to catch him at it. The closest thing the military teaches you is the standard non answer that you give on classified matters. "I can neither confirm nor deny ..........."
2007-08-03 13:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble, but if he's lying now then he's always been a liar, you just didn't see it. the Military didn't teach him that, it's something he learned a long time ago and unfortunately, the military didn't break him of the habit.
2007-08-03 13:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
i am sorry to say this, but it seems like hee was lying before he went in the Military. Sometimes there can not talk about stuff, because its top secret.
I m sorry i am probably not a big help.
2007-08-03 14:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Christa L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loyalty to the US and Military, not to you.
He's out experiencing new things and new people.
2007-08-03 13:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rawbert 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because your boyfriend was probably a liar before he joined the military.
2007-08-03 13:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Angelus2007 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think the military taught him that? Is he not capable of learning it on his own?
2007-08-03 13:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Eyed Baby 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋