2007-08-03 04:20:36 · 18 answers · asked by Kelly L 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
DONT GO
Tell him to take his new girlfriend, you have plans.
You will just be setting yourself up to get hurt pretending that you 2 are still a couple.
2007-08-03 04:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Offending Party 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your present relationship with your ex after your romantic relationship and a couple more reasons. If you're in friendly basis, and the ones getting married asked him to bring you along, and you want to attend the wedding, then, there's no problem. but, if it's the other way around, then, don't. Remember, you have every right to decline the invitation if you don't want to..
2007-08-03 04:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kaye Bennette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should reply in a nice way no Thank You. Because,one thing put yourself in her shoes would you want your guy to attend a wedding with his ex? To me that's just something bad waiting to happen.
2007-08-03 04:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by The Wedding/Event Planner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would decline the invitation. Going sounds like you are just asking for trouble.
First, he is your ex. Secondly, he has a new girl. There is probably some reason he doesn't want his new girl to go with him, and it's best if you stay out of the middle.
2007-08-03 05:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you elaborate?
Why isn't he taking his new girlfriend?
It's either:
A)She unable to go
B)Has he not told people about your breakup
C)He doesn't want to take her
I'll assume that the 2 of you are still on friendly terms so if its reason A and his new girlfriend is OK with it than I'd say go, as long as you feel comfortable.
If its B or C I'd say don't go. And beyond not going I would have a serious talk with him about your current relationship with him and yourself.
2007-08-03 04:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by SweetPea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay - I'm going to be the voice of reason here.
Not everything involves drama.
What's the reason he wants you to go?
Does his girlfriend know??
What's the nature of your relationship now?
Are you both truly over each other - no mutual regrets?
I've stayed good friends with ex-es before, and have known and liked their current girlfriends, and could even see myself being a "date" so he didn't have to go stag if his current girlfriend couldn't go.
Use your head...is this a ploy to be with you - then NO, but if he just doesn't want to go by himself, and there is no mutual interest - just friends - then go.
(Just no cheek to cheek dancing etc. - if it is as friends, behave like a friend and not anything else)
2007-08-03 05:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by apbanpos 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Easy. He is your EX. Unless you got an invite for the wedding, and they are your friends. Let him find his own date. Unless you are hoping that going to a wedding together would rekindle the relationship. BUT you did divorce? or breakup? right?
2007-08-03 04:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by firestar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Decline nicely. Don't get caught up in a situation like that, it could turn into a mess. Did he say why he chose you over his new girl or was it that his new girl couldn't go so you were his second choice?
2007-08-03 04:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is if you were the other girl how would you feel? That should answer your question!
2007-08-03 04:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by bblover81 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Decline the invitation then call his girlfriend and ask if she would like to go with him instead. My gosh...
People, I'm not serious...have some humor.
2007-08-03 04:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋