my boyfriend has trouble in bed hes a 1 minute man he cant keep it up for more then a minute then he cums...this has never happened to me before is something wrong? should i tell him because i have been noticing after he cums he still trys to keep going for me but it doesnt work i just give up on him?does anyone know anything that can help make him last longer? :-| thanks
2007-08-03 04:16:50 · 14 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you being on top would help, and him taking breaks when he feels close would help too, but other than that, it is just him controlling his emotions
2007-08-03 04:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try slowing him down yourself, when he is about to come slow down or stop what u are doing for a few seconds then start again you can keep doing this and if you get your timing right you can make him last longer, also pinching the top of his penis just before he comes will stop it from happening, there are also other things he can do to help, if you do a search on the web you can find some very good sites and I don't mean dirty porn sites I mean sex education web sites.
2007-08-03 11:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by solo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice, practice, practice. I was about the same when i first met my gf but we had a lot of sex and I started to last much longer, usually. Now that I can do it for 15-20 minutes or so, she doesnt want to have sex anymore, says that it was new and exciting when we first met but has gotten old and routine and boring i guess now. Go figure.
2007-08-03 11:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm . . . my boyfriend had the same problem. we did a couple of things so he could last longer. first, i would either give him a bj or hj, so he would come. afterwards, we would have sex. if he comes once, it should take longer the second time. he would also take a lot of breaks, and we'd take it slow. also, practice makes perfect. after awhile, he should be able to last longer.
2007-08-04 02:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by tabi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that just on the first time of the night or on everytime? try doing it 4 or 5 times and it should take the edge off. practice makes perfect
2007-08-03 11:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by charliecoesr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't mention it to him at all!! no no no!! he'll be too self conscious afterwards & might not want to do it ever again!
#1 rule is NEVER criticize your man when it comes to his manhood!!
they have condoms and gels that can make guys last longer....i think it kind of numbs it so he lasts longer?
if that doesn't work......either live with it, or get rid of it:p
2007-08-03 11:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by hippiechick♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend says she would take it as a compliment because that means shes jus that good. And that means he ain't cheatin. I say, Missy Elliott, you really don't need no minute man.
2007-08-03 11:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is terrible, im sorry....ive never had this problem but i can tell you that if he takes care of himself once before hand, or drinks a lil booze, he will last longer
2007-08-03 12:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by boredatwork 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had some answer to this too! My boyfriend's situation is similar
2007-08-03 11:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Cornsilk P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him drink about 3 red bulls ("gives you wings" means stamina).
2007-08-03 11:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by General F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋