If a man cheated his girl ... this is so painful indeed of course if the girl discovered that later. And If a girl cheated her man ... that would be painful too but the question here, according to the different mental, psychological and emotional variations between a man and a woman .. who gets more painfully affected from cheating most? Is it a girl who keeps suffering much its consequences or a boy?
2007-08-03 03:52:24 · 21 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who gets *hurt* more, not "hurted".
I think it can actually go either way.
It really depends on who has more feelings invested in the relationship...if the man has more feelings for the girl, than the girl has for the guy, then he's obviously going to hurt more than the girl when she cheats on him, and vice-versa because he was putting in more work into the relationship that she was.
2007-08-03 03:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say the Man hurts more... Men are "to be" superior & women the submissive. So, when a woman steps out on her guy - she crushes his "manhood" of being the one in control. As time goes by (meaning as I get older) I run into more "wounded" men than I really thought possible. The divorced men who were cheated by their exwives are still wounded, even years later... It's their male ego & pride that is forever affected. Funny thing is, they usually were the first to cheat & will admit that! They just can't seem to accept the fact that they couldn't "give" their wife or S.O. what she needed... in their minds, they were never wrong & should have been enough. To them, so what if "I slept around" all men do this, it's a given that men need sex more then women". (WHATEVER)
Women on the other hand, are more willing to forgive. However, we never forget... And then men wonder why women are insecure & possessive!
2007-08-03 04:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I think men have a harder time dealing with it. Women are the stronger sex with maternal instincts. So I believe that makes us a lot forgiving. This may be the reason why if a man cheats on his wife for years, she take him back, whereas if she cheated he would leave her alone. Me have a hard time thinking about you doing to someone what you do for him.
2007-08-03 03:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by patton19150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't want to sound mean but just FYI...you don't say "hurted" but "hurt" (Who gets hurt more?) and also instead of "girl cheated her man" the correct phrasing is "the girl cheated ON her man." You cheat ON someone.
back to your question...it depends on the person. If they're sensitive or really in love, any of them would be hurt. It also depends on whether they are experienced...
2007-08-03 03:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a case by case issue and depends on many issues such as self esteem, emotional attachment, trust issues, painful past, attitudes of all involved, etc. I don't think this is something you can generalize.
2007-08-03 03:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by shrugger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really care about the other person it is gonna hurt, it doesn't matter if your the guy or the girl who is getting cheated on.
2007-08-03 03:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they're both the same. My boyfriend got cheated on by his ex, and he was crushed. I guess it depends on how much in love with the other person they are.
2007-08-03 03:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By reading your story I got the feeling you wanted to swing and enjoy it, but your wife was to swing also but not enjoy, so, you are hurt because she loves have sex with other men just as much as with you or even better than you. Now she loves to swing have fun.
2016-04-01 15:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them get hurt equally. After all they are both human. However girls deal with it more harshly since it gets to their emotions guys sometimes block it and pretend to move on but they hurt though they cannot show.
2007-08-03 03:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the girl because if you ever watch Maury on channel 17 then you can see that the girls get more upset then the boys.
2007-08-03 03:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋