We have had a lot of stress. because of this, at times me and my partner cant stand to be around each other.
This has gone on for a long time. Potentially, the stress is about to lessen. How will we know that when this happens our relationship isn't permanemtly damaged?
2007-08-03 00:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by nesta 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Do you both care enough to go to a counsellour to find out how you could be helping each other through this? It sounds like you're both missing out on the best, strongest support in the world: each other.
My husband and I have been through hell and back and we always made sure we were each other's haven in the storm and knew that it was us against the world.
2007-08-03 00:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Keztacular 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an interesting question.
But there's a question you should answer before that, which is very important, and probably more important...
The answer to your question is, that all relationships can be repaired if both people are willing. the real important question is...
is your relationship WORTH repairing?
to answer this question you need more infromation than you could tell us in a yahoo question. none of us know your relationship as well as you do.
What is the stress about? a disagreement? is there one issue you two just CAN NOT agree upon... if so does this prevent a WORTHWHILE relationship? or is it minor? is it something one of you did before or while your relationship was going on? has it been resolved? can it be?
no matter what the problems may be, if one thing doesn't exist ("open communication") none of the problems can be solved, if not wanting to be around each other is cutting off communication to solve the problem, than you need to find some alternative way to communicate.
this yahoo answers is anonymous, giving more details as to why you two can't stand to be around eachother and what sets these things off will get help as to HOW to repair your relationship if you do decide it's worth repairing. just make sure you make that decision first can you live with whatever's wrong or is it really an ending point? is it something that you can't stand and you just HOPE will change one day?
anyway, hope you find out a solution. =)
2007-08-03 09:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by some random bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like both of you needs a little time together leaving the stress aside . talking about the stress that helps . arrange your schedules so you can be able and get through this stressful situation , i know how stress can affect a relationship .i think making a little time aside will help both of you . a relationship takes two not just one to make it work . what ever the circumstances are and you really want to stay with this person . just face it any relationship takes a lot of understanding,
and work . if you are married or boyfriend / girlfriend .
2007-08-03 08:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by treasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in the UK go to relate they are great i promise. If not there must be a USA equivalent. My relationship broke down due to stress, but i knew it was irreparable at the time. Since I've been going to relate with my son to help us get over the break up and they've been sooooooooooooo good can't rate them highly enough!
2007-08-03 07:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is permanently damaged when you don't care anymore. You stop trying. It's almost like you are repellent to feelings towards each other. There is so much hurt it's painful to be around the other person. When you look in his eyes and see nothing. When anger overpowers your love in decision making.
2007-08-03 09:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you no longer have the love in a hug and, you just aren't that bothered about them coming home!
The only way to truely find out is to sit and talk about why you can't stand to be in the same room as each other and about your feelings and what you both want from the relationship now if anything, hope you resolve this good luck
2007-08-03 07:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by loubie lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your relationship can't handle stress in it, then it isn't based on much that is solid, wouldn't you agree?
A relationship on solid ground withstands even the worst of times because it's based on what is important.
For better or worse.
2007-08-03 07:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you still trust your partner? If you do its worth trying to repair, if not its probably best to end it
2007-08-03 07:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by hamjamjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having kitchen se x it's finished. Kitchen se x is where you pass each other in the kitchen and each say '**** you'.
2007-08-03 07:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you keep respect for each other and be kind it is not over
2007-08-03 07:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋