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Because I have a super hard time deciding on things like I have to think about it for so long, whether its on clothes or food ANYTHING...
And once I finally do usually I wish I had chosen something else!!!
Is this a disorder?
Thanks...

2007-08-03 00:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by Zondiaque 1 in Health Mental Health

9 answers

Nope
Your Just Indecisive...

2007-08-03 00:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I really don't think it is a disorder either. But I do the same thing all the time. I have found it very helpful to narrow it down to two things and flip a coin. It's so simple and I'm always satisfied with the outcome. Try it.

2007-08-03 21:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by casey e 1 · 0 0

It could be, but I just call it "wishy-washy-itis".

Just give yourself a time limit (like 30 seconds), and once you decide, NEVER second guess yourself -- stick with what you choose, and then DROP IT ! You're just trying to drive yourself crazy, and this indecisiveness could accelerate out of control (this is just one example of being a drama queen -- turning everything into a life or death, soap opera dramatic event). JUST STOP and immediately occupy yourself with something else. Most things you decide on aren't very important anyway!

Talk to a therapist for some good decision making suggestions.
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2007-08-03 07:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0 0

Indecisiveness can be a part of Depression or Dependent Personality DIsorder.

I'm not saying you have either one; but if you have other symptoms of depression or if you have an unusually high need for other people's approval; either one would be a possibility.

I feel like that sometimes and I have depression. However, it doesn't really bother me as much as it did when I was younger.

2007-08-03 08:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by majnun99 7 · 1 0

Its not a disorder... its just your way of making decisions.

i went on this course for work, to help me manage project... i learnt that to have a successful team you need a variety of people with different personalities. You sound like myself, i did the personality profiling and came out to be a "judge/monitor" personality

PROS
makes level headed judgments based on all the information available.
tend to have a the bigger picture in mind, and how the choices they make will affect the people/departments around them.
tend to bring unbiased views to a discussion.

CONS
refuses to make a decision without looking into all other avenues and possibilities thus slowing the project down.
logic based, anything not based on sound foundations causes problem.
tend to be a pessimist

its not a bad thing, but people will always come to you with their problems. hope that helps you to understand yourself!

2007-08-03 07:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by dark_massiah 3 · 0 0

no lol u juss cant make up ur mind im like that 2 its not a disorder

2007-08-03 07:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Vannie♥ 3 · 0 0

I have ADD( attention deficit disorder) it causes me to do that.

2007-08-03 07:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joanie 2 · 0 0

I used to be indecisive but now I'm not sure.

2007-08-03 07:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by munromad2004 2 · 0 0

There isn`t a disorder out there for EVERYTHING!!!!

2007-08-03 16:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0 0

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