2007-08-02 22:46:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IF YOU DON'T HAVE CHILDREN.....TRUST ME...LEAVE YOUR WIFE FOR FEW MONTHS WITH HER MOTHER REFUSING HER TO COME BACK TO YOU. THIS WILL HELP AS PEOPLE WILL START QUESTIONING THEM AFTER SOMETIME THAT WHY SHE IS STILL WITH HER MOTHER ALTHOUGH SHE IS ALREADY MARRIED. THIS CONSTANT PRESSURE CHANGES PEOPLE FOR GOOD, I HAVE SEEN THIS.
Is your wife a child? How can she go with her mother leaving you so helpless? Isn’t she is using her mother just as an excuse?
If both of you want to stay together nobody can alter that. You can take help from police if you have too.
But i think you have to take strong action against your wife and mother-in-law.
I know of some cases where life has become hell for both husband and wife because of the same but they can't leave now as they have children now.
SO WAKE UP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.
2007-08-05 22:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mother in law at a distance. If she has to take her precious daughter away, she should not have given her in marriage. Ask her to keep her daughter with herself if she does not stop interfering.If you don't assert yourself now, you will let things escalate and you can never take firm, decisive action. If you are about to get a child then matters will become worse-you won't know whose family it is-yours or mil's. Take action NOW.
2007-08-02 23:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur mother-in-law
Ask her what her problem is........ If she thinks u r not capable enough for her daughter then explain and convince her that u r..... tell her that u luv her daughter dearly and want her back......
Also tell her that it is gud that u r meeting ur daughter but u need ur wife.
Ur mother-in-law will hopefully understand
DONT WORRY
maybe ur mother-in-law was missing her daughter or there was sumthing special in their family
HOPE THIS HELPS
2007-08-02 23:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to motherin law. Warn again. Convince ur wife.
2007-08-02 23:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i knw wat u might b thinking. but my case is worst. i am a dentist 2 daughters of my parents other is a doctor. got married. showed so much love said no dowry but after getting married mom started givin me hard time. did nt buy a single thing for me. she `ll tell me spent 5000 her daughter 10000 on niece n all but v didnt buy anythg for u nt even a singhle dress. well i just digested . mom dad spent 15 lac on weddid n they say so wat ,wats a big deal.came to america ws told that they own hotel but it ws a big loss. she `ll give me hard time.`ll tell me to do cooking all d time ,interfere in every thg even when me n husband talkin wd overheard n start fighting. wd open all my cupboards n look into everythg,strange thing is wheneva i m nt at home she wd do dat. had my daughter in laws daughter with us so i ws told or assumed to look after her even after few mnths of my marriage.me n my husband shifted afterone year. i was happy v wr happy but nw they hv sold the business n r here with us i ws told to vacate my study room n take away all shoes. they `ll take away my cosmetics n perfumes n when i said dats only 1 dat i wear n got back today i saw it missing from my dresser. all my clothers have been looked into jewellery n all .i am upset husband says so wat not a big deal u r makin big out of nothing.ws told to work in dunkin donuts or other odd job be a assistant or nurse .r nt happy with studies always fightin i am suffocating.wheneva i talk to her she assume things n say bad abt me to others.like when she was goin back last time i asked her mom can i help u for packing .she said u want me to go away say it saright. wheneva i try to talk to her she does more harm. help
2007-08-03 12:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In government service, two marriages are punishable. Get a girl-friend for some time.
2007-08-02 23:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never-mind.....ask Ur Gd Frens for advise.
Ask ur wife out for dinner and have a gd talk(ask her to speak her mind freely)
Dun give up n become a yogi k!!
2007-08-03 14:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by *♥sugar♥* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something going wrong in your marriage. Why has your wife left the house?
2007-08-03 01:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your wife leave U for months?
She must resist her Mom.
2007-08-04 03:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got problems. get away from the mother-in-law. She is ruining your life. It's your life forever not hers.
2007-08-02 22:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋