I like one girl. she is about 15 ,but i am 14. She is not interested in me, but i would like to become a close friend to her. we are going in the same school, but not in the same class. please help!
2007-08-02 21:09:57 · 7 answers · asked by jumits 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very shy.
2007-08-02 21:11:23 · update #1
Why do you want to become her close friend? Do you share similar interests? If so, you may be able to spend time getting to know her if you join the same clubs and sports she is in. But be sure that you don't annoy or pester her if she indicates that she is not interested in talking with you. Don't be a stalker! If she's not interested, perhaps you will find some other people you will enjoy in your classes or after school activities. Shy people often do better in familiar circumstances and with familiar people, so join a group that you can get to know better. Be considerate and polite to people and listen when they talk. Good luck in making new friends.
2007-08-02 21:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a girl or a ah gua... JK..
If she is not interested in you then is better for you not to catch her attention because it will just make your life miserable.
There will be a chance, since you are already in the same school, find a chance to see if you got any friends who know her then even better if you can go out together with your friend and her. Don't show that you are trying to court her. Girls dont like the guys that she dont like to keep showering her with love, she will feel disgusted.
2007-08-03 04:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by In0chI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to become a close friend? are you sure you motives are genuine, or are you hoping that by being her friend first she will see how nice you are and want you as a boyfriend?. You cant make someone be your freind unfortuantely, why dont you concentrate on building up your confidence? maybe join an activity where you can meet likeminded people and tht way meet a great girl suited to you. you dont need to change the way you are to get others attention.
2007-08-03 04:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Vickie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say maybe get to know her friends more and hang around them and the ease into it and maybe hang out around her at lunch and talk and become friends from there. Hope I could help.
2007-08-03 04:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Duncan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way would be to find comon friends and go in group together.
Trying to ask something alone to her, would mostly seem as a romantic demand.
Good luck
2007-08-03 04:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Damokles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her... listen to her... (girls love a guy who can listen)... be open to giving advice about other guys... ask her to hang out and if she seems to think you mean as more than friends tell her that she seems like a cool girl and you wanna get to know her better but ONLY as friends... even if you are interested, tell her you arent so she'll feel comfortable being friends with you...
2007-08-03 04:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to brake out of ur shell if ur funny that would b good joke around b funny all girls love that i love that
2007-08-03 04:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chunglee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋