well, i had a crush on this boy for 2-3 years and i cant stop. i have been thinking of telling him but im really not sure! the thing is..he's popular, and im not [im not a loser..i just rather wouldnt popular in my school] . so im not sure if he really even thinks of me as anything at all!!!!!!!! if i tell him, i might get over him right after..if i dont tell him..ya know, ill never know if theres a chance..So should i tell him or not that i like him?? Please!! Answer!!
2007-08-02 21:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is kinda tricky.....this guy is probably used to getting hit on all the time. So maybe you can try this - flirt with him a little to let him know that you're interested. Then see if he asks you out. I'm not at all against girls asking guys out or telling them they like them. I just think that in this case, even more than in others, he might prefer to have to do a little chasing. If girls are throwing themselves at him, he'll be more intrigued by the one who doesn't make herself so available to him, who is confident, who is attentive sometimes but other times isn't, who is a little more busy and mysterious and thus interesting, and who he has to pursue. But you know your situation better so I might be wrong in my assessment of him. Either way, make sure he knows you're interested. Good luck.
2007-08-02 21:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people know that someone likes them. It's a real shame when they don't know, though. I'd say take a chance and tell him "hey, you're pretty cute."
Then walk away, and let him contemplate what just happened. It's often a surprise to guys to have a girl be forward, but not expect a response.
After that, you can try to talk to him later, ask him about something that he's been doing (sports? art? guitar?). People love talking about themselves, and inquisitiveness is a very attractive trait.
Most of all, just be confident and cool, and remember that you are an awesome person yourself.
Good luck.
2007-08-02 21:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just open up and tell him. After all, if you don't, then think about what you will have missed out on. Good Luck.
2007-08-02 21:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, don't have any regrets in life, the last thing you want is to look back and wonder. so telling him will answer all of you questions.
good luck :)
2007-08-02 21:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is popular he can get any hot hoe in school he wants. why would he go for anything less?
2007-08-02 21:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should tell him, you know if you don't take the oportunity your'e gonna lose it
2007-08-02 21:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by kEBEK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋