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2007-08-02 19:34:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

i had a wreck in dec and i couldnt walk til just a month ago and he let me stay here his wife hates him and is with him for the money and he kows it but he dont want to do anything to make here leave so hes taking whatever it was that she did out on me ...i had a job once i started working but they let me go cas of my restrictions ive had 6 knee surgerys im 24 and i and gettin a settlement in like 3 weeks but he wants me out tomorow

2007-08-02 19:41:51 · update #1

hes my real dad but my step dad adopted me when i was 11 i started seeing this one again when i turned 18 and ive always been able to take care of myself b4 ...but he hates me he really does and my step siblings who are disrespectfull cussing drug using 13 year old can do no wrong with him...cas he dont want the new wife to leave

2007-08-02 19:45:11 · update #2

i know my screen name is confussing but i am a girl drew man is what i call my son

2007-08-02 20:06:08 · update #3

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oh sweetie! please call social services on him if he really does that... i know you probably don't want to do that because you are scared and all.. but at least you will be taken care of rather than living in the woods.. which maybe could be Thought to work out, but no one wants that. i've been in a similar situation, luckily the threat never turned Real.. but you need to call the cops or something and get help..

2007-08-02 19:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by sweetaction 2 · 0 0

people get a clue..up until a month ago this person could not walk let alone work...she's having trouble now with work because of restricions placed on activity. Hunny If there is any physical abuse from anyone in the house call the cops, you're hurt and can't defend yourself. Call social services as well they can help you with putting a roof over your head.....you should also check with the SS admin. you may be entitled to temp payments through them. Good luck and god bless.

2007-08-03 12:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It depends on how old you are. If you are under 18, then he cannot do that unless you are violent then they would take you to juvy. If you are over 18, then you just need to find someone who will take you in, a friend, or another family member. If you cannot find anyone to take you in, then there are shelters out there that will and the best ones are the christian shelters. I am so sorry and I wish I knew you cause I would take you in as a friend, but all I can say is hold on, give it some time, and you will make it just fine.

2007-08-03 02:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

then live in the woods, you are a grown man regardless of the tragic accident you suffered. i gre w up in the country, lots of the people i know have had hard times. theyve had to live with friends, live in campgrounds or in tents from time to time. if this is how your dad is i am sorry for you, but where is the stepdad you said adopted you? just pack your **** and git! go to the local social service organization. since you are still recovering from an accident go to the local disability and aging resource center. they should be able to give you some asistance. anyway the hard truth is you are 24, you are a man- not a boy and regardless of your situation...it is time to move on.

2007-08-03 03:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by momma again 3 · 0 0

Well.my pops did the same to me (16) and he didn't see me for 10 years. Poor man he died regreting that s--t. I forgave him. Anyway, get a job and a room and a car. get the job first and save money. catch the bus or walk to work. eventually you'll have your nest. I had t2 room mates. LOL and man it was crazy. Too many grrrls, in and out. but kewl dudes. if you can't do this look in the paper for adds tht say room mate needed. but I had no choice. I hope better for you.

2007-08-03 02:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Meecho 3 · 0 0

first of all I don't know how old this person is but some of you people need to think before saying grow up and get a job. You don't know what this person's situation isor if this person's dad is just mean or what. I would like to say to RD, God bless you. You sound like a wonderful person. We need more people like you in the world.

2007-08-03 02:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kathryn 4 · 0 0

Find some friends to live with till you get a job and can rent an apartment. Show your dad that you can live fine without him in your life. What did you do to tick him off so much anyway's?

2007-08-03 02:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tizmo 2 · 1 0

if your over 18 you beat on calling the cops and you should do what he says like find a job or go to school grow up and act your age

2007-08-03 02:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by sal 3 · 0 1

if u r underage go to the child protected service but if u over 21 get your own apartment and stop waiting for daddy to take care of u

2007-08-03 02:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by nicky L 2 · 1 0

why? have you done something terrible wrong with him? i think you should talk to him.ask forgiveness if you did mistakes.try to ask for another chance and promise him not to give him a headache anymore. i think thats the bestway you can do.

2007-08-03 02:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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