last week while at an inn on vacation, i met this girl who worked there. we both had similiar interests, and spent a lot of time together. she'd always hold my hand and smile at me, and she'd always hug and kiss me, or just rest her head on my shoulder. she was sad to see me leave, and said that she'd be working there again next summer. she gave me her phone # and address, but she doesnt use email or IM or anything online. she lives in texas, and I live in pennsalvania. i think about her all the time and really miss her, but i can't call her until she returns home at the end of august, since the inn only has one office phone. she's the first person who's truly understood my feelings and i feel really lonely, since i really don't have many friends. does she love me? how can i try to start a relationship with her? what should i do? honest answers, please!
2007-08-02 18:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by ACACCA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably doesn't love you, because love is deeper than that. Try writing her. See if you can be pen-pals & get to know each other, better!
2007-08-02 18:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by embroidery fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i met my bf 12 months ago and we live in dif countries. So i believe in long distance and such cause we have made it work (constant visits, emails, chat, webcam etc) However, we started out as friends. I mean i liked him but how can u tell if someone loves you just like that? So i say wait till end of summer. See how you feel cause it could be just an infatuation and not real love. If you feel same after a long time sure give it a try call her start a friendship first. Get to know her see if she if dif when away from work. Give it a few months and if after you guys feel the same and can keep in touch and you think that perhaps she might love you try for something else. Long distance can be hard but if you make it work it can be long lasting
2007-08-02 18:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completly understand what you're going through. I met THE most awsome guy on my trip to Cuba last winter. Problem is, I live in Canada. We really liked each other, but he doesn't even own a computer and the phone is real expensive there. It took me about 2 months to get over the fact that it just wasn't possible to be together anymore. I know this might sound harsh but I'm sorry to tell you, long distance relationships can be really hard on you. The best thing to do is probably to move on and let her go. Good luck!
2007-08-02 18:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by lifeisgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter and send it to the Inn.
call "datanet" and get your self an 800 number, it's free unless some one calls it, this way you can send her your 800 number and she can call you free (to her) but you'll have to pay for the calls. it's I think 7 cents a min. but worth it.
No one can say if she loves you, only she can say that.
those are my idea's. but to be honest if I really liked some one I would never have left with out a better more secure plan. when did you tell her to write you, and ask her where you can write her? and so many more options, I would have invented options.
I put no limits on love.
2007-08-02 18:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go back to the inn and surprise her! Any girl would go nuts for that. My boyfriend lives in India and I live in the US and I always wish he would just show up sometime.. If you can't go there just wait until you can call her.
2007-08-02 18:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daniella, 3 years in the past I met this woman, we grew to become pals first and then boyfriend and female pal, to me she replaced into suitable (like the action picture) she moved to the states (I stay in colombia), I had to make the comparable determination you're dealing with at present, in view that she replaced into so particular what i presumed replaced into, what could I extremely have somebody particular loving me (in spite of the reality that she is a great way) or somebody person-friendly being close to me, I chosen to look ahead to her, call her, digital mail her, attempt to shuttle each and every six months, stuff like that.. this is a danger in spite of the shown fact that, she presently broke up with me, it injury plenty, yet all the sturdy issues in life require time and a few danger, so, shop on with your coronary heart.
2016-12-11 08:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both feel a connection dont let her go --- why not write a letter care of the inn??? i dont know how old you are or your circumstances but why not make a move to texas?? why not send her a mobile then you can ring her anytime she is off?? ---- best wishes
2007-08-02 18:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really tough 1 cuz long distance relationships can be tough but ur too far away and u cant talk online.there will be too many distractins for u and her(like other guys and girls).
so my advice is to try to find some1 who understands u the way the other girl does
2007-08-02 18:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by IceM88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if she loves you only she can tell you that but if you really want to start a relationship with her you should just wait til the end of august and call her send her letters but until then you should just do things with your family to keep your mind off of her... o and if you have the time could you please answer my question i need some help http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoB_lbdABEfmUcf3PS8uF2Tsy6IX?qid=20070802215923AA8daiq
2007-08-02 18:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by CraziChild4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋