I want him btu i don't know ifhe still wants me
2007-08-02 18:01:14 · 30 answers · asked by JTB0506 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot make someone want you. You can't even make them love you. If you love and want him, and he doesn't reciprocate, then you'll have to accept it, and move on. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't love you back. It's not worth it. Keep your heart open to newcomers. I bet there's one looking for you now. :-)
2007-08-02 18:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by lady_bella 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard getting back with an ex because there was a reason it was broken off .
Could you just be really good friends-depending on why it was broken off.
Me and My ex got back together for 12 months then broke it off again. We left on good terms and we still see each other all the time and can still help each other when we need to.
2007-08-02 18:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him want you back..you just need to accept the fact that it is over and you need to move on... it's going to be hard but it'll in your best interest.. What's the point of chasing something that's just going to keep running.. eventually you're going to run out of breathe hunny.. My advice would be to take what memories you have with him and look at it as another chapter in your life.. Make sure you're over him before you try and find another guy. Most peopl would advise you to get out and do things.. But I would tell you to do that when you know you're over him.. You know go out here and there but don't go out looking for anything.. Maybe go out with your girlfriends or your family.. When you think about him and you need to cry.. Let it out.. if you feel mad.. let that anger out somewhere.. If you want to smile, don't feel bad that it's over. Just know that you were happy then but now it's time for a change..
hope that helped :]
2007-08-02 18:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I know how you feel, you want them back so badley but you don't know how they feel or even if they want you back at all.
Firslty, why did you break up, I'm guessing that he was the one who broke up with you and if that's the case has he tried to get back with you since you broke up, honsetly?
My advice is to firstly ask him if he would give you two another chance. Then at least you know where you stand. If he doesn't want to give it another chance. Move on, hang out with your girls, keep yourself busy and remember that you are a strong person who can get over this.
Good luck.
2007-08-02 18:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why he is called your EX, if he wanted you sweety, he would be called for boyfriend.. sorry, but get on with life... i went through the same thing & it has been 9 months & i am happy as every. i have found a new man (he is my future hubby!!!) Dont give him the satisfation!!!
2007-08-02 18:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him anything. If you totally cut him off from you and play hard to get then he might come back. Only if he really likes you though. Men want they can't have and when they get it they want something new and different. Typically speaking here.
2007-08-02 18:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kindestkid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what happened? Was the trust bond broken? If it was, then it's going to be really hard earning that trust back.
Try not to dwell on him though. If you see that he has no interest in you or in pursuing a relationship, then the best solution is to move on.
2007-08-02 18:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better question, why would you want someone who doesn't want you? Wait for someone who does. If you have to do something to make him want you, then he is the wrong guy.
Move on. Trying to force it is not the answer, it will only bring you more misery.
2007-08-02 18:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK first, you need to tell me more about how he behaves with you now...Is he friends with you, rarely talks or how does it go?
If he seems all happy and as if he's moved on, you need to act cool and use your jealousy technique..but beware of backfiring
Otherwise, you can always walk up to him and then talk about it, you know...
2007-08-02 18:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely nothing. Please do not grovel or beg him to take you back. Have some class and dignity and let him come to you IF he wants to. If not, it is for the best.
There is some reason that he is an EX.
2007-08-02 18:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Bob T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋