OMG my gran-gran OMG!?!?

Question

My gran-gran just died from cancer!!!! OMG what do i do?? Im so sad!!!

yeah i knew it was comming but it still hurts very badly.

Answer 1

deal with it one day at a time. Life will go on. She would have wanted you to go on with your life. Cry if you feel like crying and dont feel bad for being sad. It will get better as time goes on.

Answer 2

you say "Grandma, I love you, I will see you again, but Not today"

My people do not have a word for 'good bye'
I just buried my nephew last friday. He was stabbed and shot. Found about 100 yards from his front door. he had just turned 18. Not a gang member, good kid. Goofy as hell, but a good kid.

You had to have known your grams was close. Think of it this way though. She's in no more pain right? no more meds, no more kemo, no more pain. about 20 years ago now, my aunt died of breast cancer, it metastasized into her bone, she wasted away over 2 years. My grandmother had to watch her own daughter go this way, When it was finally over, my grandma told me. At least she don't hurt anymore.
just know your not alone, and make it count.

Answer 3

Im sorry, just deal with it...... This is life and when time goes by you will get it over with. Just relax and im sure your gran gran will want you to be happy.

Answer 4

Sit down and speak to your parents about it. Think of all of the good times. Talk about the option of counseling with your parents as well, if you feel that you may need it. Most insurance providers now a days cover visits

Answer 5

Write some special memories of your Grandma.
Pray
Bake the special cooky recipe she used to make.

Answer 6

http://dailystrength.org/support/Death_Dying/Bereavement_Teens/