I'm a 24 yr old virgin still waiting for Mr. right. i recently met a 25 yr old guy who, after recovering from the shock when he found out that i'm still a virgin told me that most men prefer experienced girls. He said most men do not want to marry virgins. Do you agree with him?
2007-08-02 16:54:17 · 27 answers · asked by sweetgracy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a rare element.
you are at the top of the food chain, have been out of reach up to now.
the mr. right you recently met is using reverse psychology on you. he is misleading you in the hope you will give it up to him really fast.
the fact is the majority of men want a virgin bride. this is one of the highest honors a woman can bestow on a man. take my word for it. the virgin bride thing is universal. in every almost every society on earth the is some kind of ceremony for virgins.
its the same reason the guy who wins the race gets a gold medal.
some men will not get married if they can't be the first.
in fact, in japan today, many men import brides from china and throughout asia, who are virgins. these girls do not speak japanese and the man do not speak chinese.
hang in there and keep your royal treasury under lock and key until a wedding ring and wedding ceremony opens it up.
i don't agree with you boy friend. he is planning to break into the treasury and get the prize under false pretense.
2007-08-02 17:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by ramni222 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am hoping my wife will be a virgin on our wedding night. In my opinion, it is the sign of a virtuous woman. There are many full grown females, but very few women. It only takes a physically mature female to have sex, but a mentally, emotionally and spiritually mature woman to wait. I have a lot of respect for women that choose and are able to control themselves and choose to wait. I, a man, also am choosing to wait for a couple of reasons: fear of G-d and love for my wife. I love a woman I haven't even met. Does that sound silly? I wouldn't cheat on her when we're married, so why would I cheat on her now? Good for you and I encourage you to stay pure. There may not be many men or women that agree with me, but this man likes, respects and desires a virtuous, beautiful, intelligent, healthy, and special virgin woman to become my partner for life. You are going to make somebody special very happy. Be strong. All the best.
2007-08-02 17:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by shrugger 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Having raised 4 daughters, all of whom were virgins when they married - I can tell you their husbands thanked us many times for their wives not bringing emotional or mental baggage of men into their marriage. Anyone who tells you he wants a woman with experience is just letting you know that he plays around and wants to play with you. Do not take him serious as it is obvious he has little or no respect for you or your decision. Anyone can lose their virginity - but to keep it and reserve yourself, the gift you are to the man God has for you - you deserve to wait for the right man, no matter how long it takes. God has the best for you too! Way to go!
2007-08-02 17:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by galfromcal 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm well im not a guy but from what ive heard its a little bit of both a guy would like an experianced girl but at the same time they think its hot if the girl is a virgin especially with the whole part of them being more tight and stuff...
2007-08-02 16:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree at all. Being a virgin doesn't have much to deal with the long term picture. Any good guy would understand that, and respect it.
2007-08-02 16:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see it this way....It is your choice whether or not you want to have sex before marriage. Period. I respect the fact that you have made this choice, and there are plenty of other things you can do besides actually have sex as well to see if you are at least somewhat compatible in that way....I could really care less either way, and if I really think the relationship could go somewhere, I am willing to wait it out.
2007-08-02 17:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by djbillietee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was 24, I was a virgin still waiting for Ms. Right. At point in time, this was very important to me. I was more interested in finding out that the other person was a virgin too. At 31, the rules have changed. I now prefer a woman that knows what she is doing...tough question. Knowing what I know now - this may or may not make sense, but it would suck to marry someone who was sexually incompatible. I kindof want to know that once we have reached that intimacy level.
2007-08-02 17:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Moosethemooch 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
He's a liar trying to convince you to have sex, Men love virgins. Well men would love to be with a virgin.
2007-08-02 16:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by jumpman247 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree with him. I really prefer Virgin. You should be proud of yourself that you are still virgin. That indicates that you are not a street girl. You are a gentle girl.
2007-08-02 17:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Narayan Krishna 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope. He is full of it. He is looking for a Mama, not someone to "grow with". Definitely not a guy for you. He has no respect for the fact that you kept yourself for someone - the right one. So keep looking and leave this guy to the strip bars.
2007-08-02 17:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋