ok so i went to this concert with my friends. i saw my bf there, and we waved and said hi to each other. he didnt rlly hang out with me much, but kept looking over at me with his friends. he only talked to me a lil bit and barely hung out with me.... besides the fact tht he playfully took my cell phone but then gave it back lol. i asked my friends to ask him why he was acting weird like this, but he said nothing and woudnt talk to me.... he barely made the effort to come near me....did i do something wrong??? is it him??? idk im jus so sad im crying i love him soo much plzz help me!!
2007-08-02 15:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by meredith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like your bf didn't even tell you he was going to the concert...and you guys barely even communicate. why is he even your bf??
2007-08-02 15:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by nisee♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didnt mention how long u guys been together, its difficult to decipher the state of ur r/s. u probably went to the concert to hv a gd time wt ur friends... and bumping into ur bf there is probably a conincidence? If so, u should concentrate on having a gd time wt ur own friends rather than if he is paying full attention on u. he is out there to hv his own personal fun time with his mates. so i wouldnt expect him to do anything more than to occasionally look and talk to u. u must realize in a healthy r/s, both parties need to hv their personal time away fm each other once in a while. dont stress urself, as ultimately, u will be stressing him too - once that happens, it only lead to the downfall of the r/s. BREATHE gal, BREATHE....
p.s.: if u want his full attention, arrange to go out on a date wt him, 1-to-1, and im sure he will give u his full attention.
2007-08-02 22:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Banana_C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down!, take a deep breath...
Are u seatle now...?
we guys, act weird when welike a girl; all we know at that moment is that we would like to spend the next 10 minutes in side your pants... nothing als.
2007-08-02 22:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by thiny72 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALM DOWN. He was probably just hanging out with his guy friends and didn't wanna seem all sappy and sensitive because he didn't want to be made fun of. Don't cry about this kind of crap, it's not worth it! He's just a regular guy who wants to keep his macho reputation.
2007-08-02 22:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just acting all "cool" and stupid in front of his "friends". i would not take it personal. find a bf who is willing to give you the attention you deserve, and tell this clown to keep hanging with his friends, cuz u don't want 2 c him any more.
2007-08-02 22:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....guys act differently when they are with their friends. They shouldn't but they do and there is really nothing to do about it....unless you talk to him about it. Then maybe he will think twice next time about ignoring you because his friends are around!
Good luck!! :)
2007-08-02 22:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, boys are silly when they are young. He wants to hang out with his friends just as much as he wants to hang out with you. If he had totally ignored you and not spoken to you at all, I would be completely concerned. Just talk to him yourself and FYI, don't get your friends involved.
2007-08-02 22:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie that does suck but maybe hes planning someting speacil or maybe he shaving second thought ( i hope not) but maybe call him p and make plans for something he'd really like to do so you can take those thoughts away haha but good luck
2007-08-02 22:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becuase he is ur bf doesnt mean its all about you.
he HAS friends and if he wants he gets to hang around them. so suck it up stop crying!
2007-08-02 22:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, he still loves you. guys just act so differently when they are with there friends. and he came there with them so he probably wanted to hang out with them for that one night.
2007-08-02 22:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by athleticbeachcutie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋