so i was wit this girl n she lied to me bout somebody she slept wit before us n i juss unleashed hell on her. lying is a big deal to me. she begged n begged for me back so i said ok. now she tellin me she dont wanna be with me cuz she scarred about how ill react in our next argument. i promised her it wouldnt happen again but now were juss like in that confused stage. what the hell am i suppsoed to do now? move on n forget about her? or beg n beg like her to get her back? n im scarred that if i give her time to think about it, shell leave me for good. i mean, im in love with the girl. yea yea, i know but i want this to work but im running out of options... please help
2007-08-02 14:53:06 · 3 answers · asked by coolrhyder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are plenty of fish in the sea, move on.
2007-08-02 15:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by thepolishchef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are a teenager and this is "puppy love", don't worry about it. Move on. You'll be over her in six months anyway. If you are an adult and you really think the relationship is worth fighting for then fight for it. But if you can't honestly forget about the reason that you got in the argument in the first place and if you're going to keep using it against her, then let her go.
2007-08-02 22:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by cutie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a familiar experience almost, i think you two should talk about whatever problems you are encountering. if she is saying she doesnt want to be with you and you told her you wont act llike that again, maybe you will have to let her go if you cant come to an agreement, because she lied to you and now shes saying shes ready to break up?! whats going on here? sounds like you two are going in circles?! is your relationship strong enough to make it?! is she confused? does she want to be with you or doesnt she? talk about it the both of you and come to a conclusion of what you think is the right thing to do. listen to your heart thats the best advice. you shouldNT beg for her. like i said talk about it and come up with what you two are going to do.whats best for the two of you? move on from this or break up? listen to your heart..if she wants to leave let her go..
2007-08-02 22:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋