what should i do, my fiancee is overseas and i am doing everything, paying his bills, booking his flight to go to his hometown, talking to his family, dealing with financial crap, standing in a post office line for an hour to send him a package, and letters. He does not appreciate it and i mean it, i write long drawn out e-mails saying how much i love him and miss him and i get a once sentence e-mail back. He makes me cry and sometimes he is like stop i am sorry and other times he is lke quit winning B. I do not know what to do...
2007-08-02 14:52:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you engaged to him if you feel like crap about the relationship?
2007-08-02 14:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he doesnt apprieciate everything you are doing then why are you doing them?sounds like he is taking you for granted! wake up baby! let him do things on his own from now on so he can see everything you are doing and let him appriecaite it and you! STOP emailing him also. he needs to wake up. and when he typs something to you type him a one sentence back. give him a taste of his own medicine. i hate to have to play games with guys but maybe sometimes thats what you have to do with people. why be engaged to someone like him and he calls you a B? thats not right nor healthy. why do you continue to hurt yourself? let him go! how can you not know what to do? wake up thats what you shold do! find someone who apprieciates you and loves you for everything you are doing. stop cheating yourself and selling yourself short. stop doing stuff for him and when he ask why you are not doing them tell him to do his own things you have enough to do and tell him he doesnt apprieciate it so you are not doing it anymore. tell him you are tired of his b.s. hope i helped.
2007-08-02 16:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋