I know this girl quite awhile and she always asks me about my day and tells me often that she likes to be around me because i make her laugh and now it seems that she wants to spent more and more time with me by talking more often and asking to hang around with me
But the funny thing is she has a bf and she never really talks about him like girls usually do when they are crazy about their bf, i think she's getting what she was waiting for from me and so my question is that is it serious between them because she never mentions him or even told me his name lol
I think she might pop the question on me soon, what do you guys think ? Feel free to give me a full detail of what you think.
2007-08-02
14:46:20
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this is funny couple of days ago she asked me about my choice in girls, and was serious about every question if i try making a joke she asks back to get an answer on the specific question and asks if i'm seeing someone or if i like someone lol.
This is leading somewhere i'll just wait and see what's going on
2007-08-05
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I think wait till she does then ask her
"But don't you have a bf?"
If she says she does but will dump him for you, you should tell her thats a bit slack, but to do the dumping first then come back and see ya.
2007-08-02 14:50:00
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answered by Renesme 5
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well if you do truely like the girl and she asks you out or something; you should ask her about her boyfriend first and tell her that you dont want to go out with her unless she is single.
here is an example... okay; say you have girlfriend that you really like!! would you want some other guy going out with her?? you would pissed wouldnt you?? and you would be even more mad if you found out that he knew she already had a boyfriend!! am i right?? sometimes you just have to put on another persons shoes and take a stroll around the mall to see how it might affect another person.
ohh and here is something else. if she goes out with you; then that means shes cheating on her boyfriend. so if you guys become a couple she may be likely to do it again with another guy!! do you really want to date someone that could potentially break your heart like that??
just think about that, and remeber to talk to her first. and tell her how you truely feel!! and besides girls totally dig guys that open up and are emotional!!
well good luck!! hopefully this helped!!
2007-08-02 22:04:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, it does sound like she doesn't have a lot of feelings for the boyfriend or she would be talking about him. She might have found in you what she wanted from him and didn't get. But, she also might have found a very good friend with you and that's what she wants. It could go either way. But not matter how it goes, it does sound like you two are a lot in common. Stay friends and see what happens.
2007-08-02 21:50:32
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answered by Anonymous
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my guess is that she's probably into you. when a girl talks about how much she enjoys a guys company & being around him then most likely she has fallen for him somehow. & i've been told by several guys that they dont like to hear about other guys. that may be the reason she hasnt talked/mentioned her bf 2 u. if it really bothers you, u can always question her about him. my guess is that she doesnt wanna talk about him b/c she doesnt wanna run u off.
are u interested in her? if so, just casually flirt with her & c where it goes.
2007-08-02 21:52:25
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answered by Lil Shawtii Ki 2
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I'm a women so take my word on this. Any time, and I do mean any time that a female says "you make me laugh" that is a for sign that she likes you more than she wants you to know. She enjoys your company and you should be excited that someone is so interested in getting to know you. If the feelings are mutual let your relationship grow until YOU decicde to make it more.
2007-08-02 21:52:30
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answered by sun_diva2001 1
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I just got out of a situation like that. If she likes you than the relationship won't last long between her and the other guy. The best thing you can do is talk to her yourself. It will take alot of courage but I'm sure she'll appreciate it!
2007-08-02 21:51:53
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answered by Jenay 1
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Hmmm, it is true girls tend to mention their boyfriends to other friends but there is a chance this is an exception...
But realistically, it does sound like she likes you.. if you like her too go with the flow...but dont get caught up and become the bad guy by 'breaking her and her boyfriend up'
2007-08-02 21:51:39
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answered by melya 4
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well. i think that she might not feel comfortable talking about her boyfriend with you, because 1. your a guy, and 2. she may like you. you should ask her, casually, how she feels about you, like as a friend, or more than a friend. Don't assume that she likes you more than a friend, because that will only lead to disaster. or maybe not. maybe you have a good gut feeling. good luck~
2007-08-02 21:52:25
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answered by bugsandtweety 3
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She really likes you. Her boyfriend and her are not really serious. She has feelings for you yet she still hangs on to him. So I would ask her why she still has a boyfriend and yet she is leading you on. Mabye she is insecure about herself and until she knows for sure that you like her will she finally dump her boyfriend and ask you out.
2007-08-10 19:06:20
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answered by Cleveland Browns Girl! Go team! 2
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Well if shes hanging around you she is obviously crushing on you and over her current bf.....if i were here id break up with my current BF then follow another guy.....if it bothers you that shes after you while she still has a Bf talk to her......
2007-08-02 21:51:15
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answered by elizacandle 4
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