I'm not sure if my dad put it under my mom's clothes, becuase i'm pretty sure my mom knows about it. What if my mom looks at porn, can u please tell me what to do? I can't sleep anymore
2007-08-02 13:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by naniandtutu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i wouldn't worry to much about it your mom and dad have probably done/seen more than just that porn that you found. And i wouldn't fret about finding that. my friend's mom has a chest in her bed room and she happened to look in there one day and it is FULL of porn.
2007-08-02 14:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by izzy-beff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 23:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is put it back where you found it (what are you doing in her closet anyway?) and quietly walk away. Some things in life are just none of your business. Not worth losing any sleep over. Adults have a sex life. How do you think you got here?
2007-08-02 14:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but you are old enough to know to stay out of mom and dad's room and things.If mom asked you to go in there for something and then you came across it while looking for it then you need to tell mom that you found it.It will let her know that you now know what sensitive material she has in her room that you are capable of finding it. Be honest with her.
Now if you went in there ON YOUR OWN and was rumaging around and came across it then you need to remember this: WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF MOM AND DAD WENT SEARCHING THROUGH YOUR PERSONAL THINGS THAT YOU DIDN'T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW ABOUT? Catch my drift?
I'm not being mean but even if you were looking for something that belonged to you in her room, you should have asked permission to go in there to look for it.If she was at work or out of the house you should have waited until she came home.
Parents have the right towatch these types of movies if they wish. It is their responsibility to make sure that they are put in a secure location away from wandering eyes.But again it comes down to respecting your parents privacy of their bedroom.
Parents (not all) tend to keep these movies for their own reasons.There is nothing wrong with it as long as it is viewed to help maintain a healthy marriage and what goes into the marriage. I am assuming that you may not be old enough to understand this or to be explained why they tend to watch these kind of movies.
If you are really this upset over finding this movie then you need to talk to one of them or both and let them talk to you about why they have it.Maybe hearing it from them will help you rest a bit easier.They will be able to explain things to you that none of us can because we are not your parents.
But I am a parent and I have already talked to both of my kids about such things and explained everything that I could possibly tell them.Once they got done asking about a zillion questions(which they really did) they were content about what they were explained.
You need to talk to mom and dad and get the air cleared up.It's time that you got one on one with them and opened up the communication lines with them.Ask as many questions as possible and be sincere about it.
Good luck and talk to them.You would be amazed at what they tell you.
By the way, if you went snooping in their room, you had better apologize to them for snooping.If they punish you for it then you had better take the punishment and still keep on planning to talk with them.
2007-08-02 17:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are adults, they are allowed to look at porn if they choose. It's not your business or anything you need be concerned about and it certainly isn't anything to lose sleep over.
Get over it and get on with your life. So you found out at least one (or both) of your parents are sexual people...honey, if they weren't to some degree you wouldn't be here right now.
2007-08-02 14:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about. I'm pretty sure they aren't the only ones that look at porn.
2007-08-02 14:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by wdh25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to worry about, your Mum is just human. Yes she's your Mum and you don't want to think of her that way but my advice is to let it go and leave her alone. One day you may have porn when you have kids. It's all part of life.
2007-08-02 14:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Seahorse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Its natural! not to worry, go take a bath and feel relaxed..
I understand how it feels but you can't do anything..after all she is your mom, if you are open with her you can ask her directly..
But I think it will be a bad idea.. so don't do anything!
I'm with you..
your friend
Arun
2007-08-02 14:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Arun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business and stay out of her things?
your mother is obviously old enough to purchase and look at porn. she is of legal age.
everyone has hormones, even our mothers.
take care!!
2007-08-02 14:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your business. Obviously your mom has sex, she's married and had you!!
2007-08-02 14:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋