my girlfreind is a promiscious drunk what should i do she says she is what shoud i do or think aobut her or what to say to her?
2007-08-02 10:34:23 · 13 answers · asked by ANDREW T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you dating her? I suspect that this isn't new and that she was this way when you met her. So why is it not ok now?
2007-08-02 10:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel this way about her, then you really need to figure out why you are still with her. Relationships lead in one of two directions -- marriage or breakup. If you do not see a future in this, then you need to cut your ties and move on with your life. I dated someone that was an alcoholic. I am still friends with him, but I could never date him again. It is too much pain to deal with. He will not admit he needs help.
Talk to her. Tell her that she needs to think about her actions. Ask her if she thinks that she drinks too much. See if she can face the fact that she needs some help. If she cannot do this, then you really need to make a choice for your well-being.
2007-08-02 20:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least she's honest. Don't marry her.
That's number one.
If you have nothing better going on, ride it out and enjoy it for what it is...easy, you know. And remember, if you are not in a committed relationship with her, and she is having sex with other guys, she isn't really your girlfriend. She is your sex buddy.
Sex buddies are a modern phenomenon. Years ago, that term did not even exist. It sounds like you have yourself a sex buddy.
That's not a bad thing to have. I've had a couple of those myself. Man, to be honest with you, I'd like to go see one now! LOL
Just don't get serious with her man, meaning giving her a ring.
2007-08-02 17:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it to her and see what happens.
Or find someone else that isn't a promiscious drunk.
2007-08-02 17:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Istis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices really. You can convince her to get help and dry out. If she does not want to dry out, then you need to leave her. I know it may be a cold thing to do, but you got to let her know that you can't tolerate her drinking and what its effects on your relationship. You also don't want to be around when she hits rock bottom and she drags you down with her.
She has to make a choice. You or the bottle.
2007-08-02 17:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must like it if you still with her. when she decides to be a promiscious drunk one night drive her a** to a 7/11 drop her off and catch fye on her.
2007-08-02 17:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going out to the bar/club to drink - just hold parties at YOUR place. That way, you can control WHO is there - and if there's NOBODY for her to flirt with, then you're in the clear...
Besides - for $25, you can buy 2-3 drinks (at a club) OR an entire bottle of booze (at home) ;););)
2007-08-02 18:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and let her know that it bothers you and that you don't want her to keep doing that, hopefully she'll understand where your coming from.
2007-08-02 17:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by In love with life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her you are concerned and talk about how it is effecting your relationship.
2007-08-02 17:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by sparkzxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her and find a decent good girl for once
2007-08-02 17:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋