my girlfreind says she loves me but she tells all the guys she meets that she doesnt have a boyfreind?

Question

my girlfreind says she loves me but she tells all the guys she meets that she doesnt have a boyfreind and i confronted her about it and she says she just likes the attention
what should i say to her or think aobut what she is doing?

Answer 1

For the sake of your heart, end this relationship. Any woman that is willing to deny her boyfriend is actively LOOKING to CHEAT. Don't buy her stories and lies. She is a cheater, and even though it might be painful to break up with her now, it will be FAR less painful than catching her in the act. Trust me on that one...

Answer 2

Let me give you an answer from a girls perspective. She doesn't love you...Sorry :( but its true. When i fell in love with my husband i was shouting it to the world! There was no way that i would have told people i didn't have a boyfriend. When you love someone you just want to let the whole world in on how you feel. If she is looking for attention somewhere else then she probably feels you're not enough. Pleas leave her. I'm sure that you will find someone that is worthy of your love very soon....Best wishes

Answer 3

I know this trick it means he already has a gf and that he thinks the day before that he can find the time to dodge his mrs, but then come the next day a bit of guilt kicks in and then cant get the time away! I know because i have done this. It means he is a socializer, meaning he says yes to everything and then cancels people do it all the time in sales like when you get that call and say yes then cancel the next day! Dont fall for it.

Answer 4

That's not a good situation. She probably does actually care about you, but if the attention is more important to her than your feelings, she may not love you as much as she should. Tell her it really hurts your feelings, and you need her to appreciate you more publicly.

Also, if every guy she meets thinks she's single, and she likes the attention, that situation could get a lot worse very quickly. Definitely tell her it has to change.

Answer 5

I think that's disrespectful to you. I'm glad you said something to her. From her answer, it sounds like she is more concerned about having the attention for herself than she is about publicly acknowledging that she's with you. I thought boyfriends and girlfriends / husbands and wives said, "No, sorry, I'm in a relationship with a wonderful person." I can understand your strange feelings in this situation. You can't make her change her behavior if she doesn't want to, but I think you were smart in saying something to her. I'm not sure what advice to give you, but I will say thanks for sharing. I hope things work out well.

Answer 6

That's just skanky. Who the hell needs an attention whore like that? It's not just attention and it's not far from leading guys on.

I'd either flat dump her (maybe, AFTER some sex) or first start doing the same thing just to see if she had a double standard about it, then I'd dump her either way.

Oh yah, and I'd start blatantly checking other women out, maybe ask some for their number, right in front of her. "I just like making friends!" :-)

Effin nasty, ego-centric women.

Answer 7

dump her before u get hurt she's playing the field looking for a better deal then u will be out of the picture

Answer 8

i think maybe you guys need to seperate for a little bit. it seems to me that she's not ready to commit to you and she doesn't know what she wants. if you take the situation lightly, she may feel as though she can take advantage of you and treat you any kind of way. don't let that happen.

Answer 9

she probably does like you just fine.
but she's probably not a keeper.
if she doesn't like you enough to tell others about you, then she really isn't worth a lot of effort.
also, if she really does love you but is that insecure, she's probably still not a keeper because that just leads to a ton more problems.

Answer 10

im so sorry that shes a *****. i think you need to dump her. she just might end up cheeting and i dont want that to happen so i think you should to dump her. if you need further message me at [e-mail]
GOOD LUCK
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