my girl had a dream that she did some sexual things with my friend wat does this mean? please help me.?

Question

she says its just a dream but it pissed me off i juss wanna kno am i overreacting or should i have a right to be pissed?

Answer 1

To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.

Answer 2

I know I've said before that dreams are a manifestation of the subconscious, in other words, hidden desires that come forth in dreams as symbolism. However, that's not to be take quite so literally. It doesn't necessarily mean that your girfriend has a secret desire to make it with your friend. She may have a secret wish for something else that's unattainable, such as money, a better social life, or even a desire to get along better with her parents. But in her dream, it manifests as a sexual thing with your friend. That's how goofy dreams are -- they don't relate to the real thing, and use symbolism instead.

I'll give you an example. I have a recurrent dream about my teeth falling out. Does that mean I want to have dentures? Hell no! What was explained to me, was that I feared the loss of my children when they would grow up and leave home. What does that have to do with teeth? Absolutely nothing! So please, don't be too hard on your girl. She picked you, and not your friend, and she can't control what she dreams. At least she had the honesty to tell you about it. If there were anything going on, would she admit it? Another hell no.... So don't be pissed off over nothing. Lots of people have erotic dreams about people they wouldn't give the time of day to, in their waking hours.

Answer 3

Overreacting a bit, but at the same time you
being upset is appreciated. With regard to
the overreacting... understand that what we
experience in our dreams is symbolism. While we
sleep the unconscious continues to resolve what is
left unresolved in wakeful hours- unfinished business
so to speak. To dream of someone other
than our significant other is experienced, at one time
or another by everyone. Its comparable to having a dream
of making love with a celebrity. This occurence is highly unlikely, in the light of day and for that matter, might well be undesirable... in the light of day.The person we experience in the dream is merely the guide directing us to what we are afraid of and or what we are wishing for. Remember there are
only two (2) types of dreams: Fearful and Wishful.

The pissed off part- raises the question: Why is your girl telling you her dreams- a bit insensitive on her part- most especially if she is telling you to get you to do something that she is wanting (And keep in mind that your girl may not yet know herself what it is she is wanting.).Read some "Carl Jung," he is a wealth of knowledge regarding tbe workings of the unconscious and dreamstates.

Don't let this dream bother you one bit! Let it go! Its a dream-

Answer 4

According to Dreamcrowd:

To dream about your own sexuality, signifies the secrets and meaning of life. You may be dealing with life issues of birth, marriage, and/or death. Alternatively, it suggests that you are concerned about losing your sex appeal.

Try posting your dream on Dreamcrowd for a free interpretation.

Answer 5

devoid of having too medical, i think of that this dream symbolizes her transforming into to be attentive to her very own alluring; being and prowess. don't experience threatened, somewhat, check out this as a deep compliment to you. you have of course wakened in her , her very own sexual self and that's the boldness that she feels by using you expressing itself. i'm assuming which you have an open relationship as she would be able to talk to you approximately those targets and you deserve substantial kudos factors for this by using fact the lines of verbal substitute are open between you 2. i do no longer think of that the chum interior the dream had as plenty value by using fact the "self belief" and experience of self that she felt with interior the dream which allowed her to be in basic terms a basic "sexual being" devoid of ties and devoid of something yet animal intestine instinct. i'm guessing which you're reaping some great advantages of this new stumbled on self belief along with her. sustain the coolest artwork. You sound like a remarkable boyfriend to have. : ).

Answer 6

It's totally normal to wonder about other people. Have you ever seen someone and fantasized about them. Just because she had a dream about your friend in no way means she would ever act upon it. She can't control what she dreams about, it was JUST a dream.

Answer 7

I actually heard somewhere from a very unreliable source that dreaming about your lover having an affair with someone else reveals your own displaced feelings of cheating on your lover.

....soooo....maybe dreaming that you cheat on your lover, means that you fear he/she will cheat on you.

Answer 8

*Ok, here are some things I found, I hope they help...anyways I just assumed some of the things I listed. They are to be directed towards her and that dream.


To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised? your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors.?? Alternatively, it? reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.

To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you? are not being honest with yourself.


To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex, signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy. It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life. The dream may also be a pun on talking about sex. You may need to communicate with your mate about your sexual needs and desires. Perhaps you are acting out your sexual wishes.

To dream that you are performing oral sex on yourself, represents your need for self-gratification.


Sex

To dream about sex, refers to the psychological completion and the integration of contrasting aspects of the Self. You need to be more receptive and incorporate aspects of your dream sex partner into your own character. Alternatively and a more direct interpretation of the dream, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.

To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together. Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fianc鮠It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.

If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, signifies not necessarily homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side.

To dream that you are the opposite sex, suggests that you exhibit or need to incorporate those qualities of the opposite sex. Ask yourself, how do you feel being a man or a woman? In what ways can you incorporate those feelings into your waking life.

Answer 9

If she's dreaming it, she's thinking about it.

Doesnt mean she will do it.

Dont get mad when she shares things with you, because if you do, she may never share with you again.

Answer 10

oh my god,
no certain meaning

don't think too much
just a dream not real