2007-08-02 08:39:34 · 31 answers · asked by Nicole P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(Im a guy, reversing the roles)
No. If my girl cheated on me (in the past, it has happened), I would never cheat on her back. I am better than that.
2007-08-02 08:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by PSU840 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a man/woman cheats on their partner they are showing that they have no respect for the person's feelings and body.Don't cheat on him to get revenge. If you are in love with this guy and you cheat on him in the long run you'll only hurt yourself even more and prove to be just like him. If you are a sensitive person, staying in the relationship will only make you bitter. if you can't forgive him it doesn't make sense continuing the relationship.
2007-08-02 15:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Nads♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try 2 get revenge because thats crazy. Wats tha point in trying to 2 dat. I could see if it was someone who was worth getting revenge on. But he cheated on u. Find someone who will treat u better. The revenge will only make it worse.
2007-08-02 15:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by kc_816ma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a crush on a guy, and want to sleep with him, go and do that.
Dont give this reason that ur man cheated on u first for yourselves.
If you really meant it that he is cheating on u, sleeping with someone else is no way taking revenge!! Y u wanna become a whore?!! kiddish.
Grow up
Dump him
Move on., there are many more better guys waiting for a nice lady.
2007-08-03 06:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sanjeev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't cheat to get revenge because the relationship would be over. Before I got married to my wonderful husband, I was in a long term relationship with this guy and it was his brother who convinced him to cheat on me (he didn't like me very much but whatever). I went to his apartment to confront him and bring him the stuff he left at my place one night in the rain. When he wouldn't come out, I stomped all of his work clothes into the mud. Then I placed a framed picture he drew of me in front of his door. Immature maybe but boy did it feel good!
2007-08-02 16:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Empress1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I was in the same prediacament once. I didn't cheat because then i would be lowering myself. A womans worth is vital. If you don't have worth then you don't have much to offer. Let him go. If he cheated he will cheat again because he knows the consequences and knows you will still be there it will just be that easier to cross the line. Let him know about the information you have and say goodbye.Make sure you let him know how much he hurt you before you leave. Never talk to him again and if you see him in public, say hello and keep it moving. This way there will never be" she did it too!" The simple fact will be that he messed up and its plain to see.
2007-08-02 15:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of that? There are much better ways to get revenge than cheapening yourself. I'd start with dumping his behind for a man with some character.
2007-08-02 15:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Cheating is wrong, and cannot be justified by the old "well, he did it first" argument. Revenge is a pointless waste of time and energy. Just leave him, and find someone who treats you right instead.
2007-08-02 15:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by elizatash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would have the heart to get revenge. I would be too hurt that the love of my life betrayed me. If all you were seeking to do is hurt them, then I would think that you never really cared about THEM in the first place.
2007-08-02 15:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend confessed to a fling that happened in the beginning of our relationship. I still love him the same, but it made me less committed. For example, I didn't feel guilty flirting or fantasizing about other guys.
But I would never, ever, ever physically cheat on someone, no matter what they have done to me.
2007-08-02 15:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by il potere di scelta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no thats just as jerkish as actually cheating on someone. if someone u have dated and u thought u really liked the person dont get revenge, but dont fall for the person if they come crawling back!
2007-08-02 15:43:56 · answer #11 · answered by ReD hEaD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋