Marriage is just so much fun, but I don't want all the commitment that sex entails. Is it okay for me to just get married without sleeping around first? I know that this seems immoral and against the standards of our culture, but it's what I want.
2007-08-02 08:38:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Why take free milk when I can buy the cow?
2007-08-02 08:40:34 · update #1
I'm talking about presexual marriage, not premarital sex people... read closely
2007-08-02 08:46:24 · update #2
I strongly oppose sex after marriage. Or at least my wife does, so I have to by default.
2007-08-02 08:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you don't know what you want then your not going to get it through marriage. Most likely you'll be unhappy, the man will be rash... and after your old you'll regret it. Sex itself is up to you, just most old people that are divorced will tell you they'll sleep with a guy just to know if he's marriage material.
As a sidenote, if I found a narrow minded heavily religious girl who wanted to marry me/do things blindly and without a care for her own pleasure/standards but only mine out of a feeling of duty. Then I'd take it, wouldn't be fair to her tho, but I'd take it, lol...
2007-08-02 15:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a neighbor once who's daughter had this outrageously elaborate wedding. (four limos even). and spend over $35K.
What the parents didn't know was that the newly weds had never had sex before.
Well daughter Mary was back home in three weeks and filed for divorce !. It seemed that the brute she had married actually wanted her to give him or*l sex, and she found that to be just too "icky"!
True story !
Hey, if you want to save yourself for marriage that's up to you, but personally I would like to taste at least a sip of the milk before I buy it.
2007-08-02 15:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mezmarelda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is all up to you if you want to stay a virgin until you get married. Some people can not stay away from having sex especially if it is until they do get married. Some people do not get even married so then what never be with anyone your whole life. The person you are with might not want to wait for you or maybe they want you to have some experience of being with someone. Think about it.
2007-08-02 15:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer7228 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
Getting married before living with the person and sharing everything completely (including paying the bills, cooking, cleaning, shopping, and even sex) before marriage is essential. Until you do everything with that person, you will never truly know them. Only after you know all this about the person can you make a rational decision about marriage.
2007-08-02 15:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes marriage before sex is beneath God's plan 4 u.
Yes it's okay to get married without sleeping around first.
I hope you get this.
2007-08-02 15:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many people preach against pre-marital sex. Yet when questioned, nearly all of the attractive ones did it before marriage. Hypocrites.
2007-08-02 15:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by doubt_is_freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fornication!
I don't believe it's against the standards of our
culture though.Societies standards today seem
to be heading toward the pigpen.
God says it's fornication,society says it's ok.
2007-08-02 15:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, lol..Sex sucks. Just buy some randome person a house to get these sins out of your mind.
2007-08-02 15:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by bryanccfshr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage before sex is a sin. or was it marriage to your mother before sex with your sister a sin?...I dont remember
2007-08-02 15:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋