Ive been with my GF for about a year and a half, she just texted her ex asking him how he is doing. If she loves me why would she text him? She said she just wanted to see how he was doing not to think of anything because she is in love with me and she wants to grow old with me. Now today i saw on her MYSPACE that she sent another EX a comment telling him she ran into a female friend of his. When i confronted her she said that she is just being nice and i have nothing in the world to worry about. We have split up once cause she cheated. Since we got back together she has shown me alot of love and difference. But now these two incidents happen. She says that she will never talk to them again if its going to hurt us but its not the first time she has done this. Does that mean she is cheating again and should i end the relationship?
2007-08-02 08:34:44 · 10 answers · asked by liltex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont end it to soon, it may be nothing. there is nothing wrong with a girl wanting to be friends with an Ex, aslong as she is not still romanticly involved with them, and if the one she cheated with was one of her Ex, i wouldnt think much of it, but still keep an eye out
2007-08-02 08:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jerky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
litex she is a girl and girls love to do so, if she didn't like u you , the two of u would not be dating for the past year and a half. see it would be foolish of u to break up with her just because that. yeah i know this is not the first time but u can't say that you haven't to ur parents about something move that three times. my best friend 's girl did the same to him but that didn't worry him cus he knew it was nothing to make a big deal out of . He start to ask how his girl's EX was doing as a joke , and they lafd about it. make the right choice u know her better.
2007-08-02 15:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by kwan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe paranoia is creeping up on you because she cheated on you. I too get that sometimes, as my bf speaks to his ex alot on myspace and it does creep at the back of my mind. You just have to keep your cool, unless she gives you a reason not to be giving her a 2nd chance you'll just have to keep a cool head. If you find trusting her is too hard (which would be perfectly understandable) you'll just have to let her know, or break it off. Good luck
2007-08-02 15:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Gotta love it 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay if she is giving you love etc, and there's no change in her, then she probably wants to show that she is a nice person and can be friends with people that not many people would want to be friends with, so in other words, she wants to make you proud of her
2007-08-02 15:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all i can say is once a cheat always a cheat!
she has cheated on you once and broke that trust, you forgave her but now she is lying to you!
i would get rid of her before she hurts you even more!
good luck
2007-08-02 15:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i probably shouldnt even bother answering this cuz all i can say is... i hate cheaters!!... chances r she was just being friendly but that doesnt mean u should fully trust her again... after she cheated the first time she probably lost ur trust.. right?
2007-08-02 15:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by That one girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her words say one thing but her actions say something completely different. If you couldn't trust her before and there is no change than that should tell you not to trust her. Sorry man.
2007-08-02 15:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DEALBREAKER!! Cheating is a dealbreaker. If you let her get away with cheating once, she will expect you to do it again. Have some breakup sex and tell her to kick rocks!
2007-08-02 15:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by tmayes10@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may not be cheating exactly but she is still attatched to them.Either she ends that or you end the relationship.
2007-08-02 15:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means she is lying to you...for sure. Once she has cheasted on you...you break it off...because you will be having this problem for the rest of your relationship.
2007-08-02 15:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rob M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋