Is Secret of happy life is to have plenty of girls on the side ??

Question

My friend is very wise in everything.

He told me that Like Clinton and Kennedy ( truly the wisest men of America) you need to learn to have plenty of girls on the side, whether you are married or engaged etc....just keep girls to have fun on the side .... How can I learn to be just like my ideals ???

My wise friend is already having the time of his life ..he does not have any STD -- he goes with quality girls and always uses condoms ...

Answer 1

Absolutely!

Answer 2

if Clinton and Kennedy were truly the wisest men of America they wouldn't have or have had all of the issues that plague them. it sounds to me like your friend is a frat boy with commitment issues and this is clearly a case of the blind leading the blind. no one can tell you what the secret to happiness is because happiness is something different to everyone some people are happy with a family life you know the mini van and car pool the kids and family vacations, some people are happy with the bachelor life clubbing and having a different person in their bed every night, some people are happy living a life of solitude. but ones thing is for sure committing to one woman and then lying to her and having a bunch of women on the side is the recipe for disaster because you never know when you will have a fatal attraction on your hands aside from the fact that it most definitely will get tiring and you wont be able to keep the lies straight. don't listen to your friend because it sounds to me like he's an idiot book smarts does not amount to common sense.

Answer 3

Did you know that both Clinton and Kennedy had and are having marital problems? Although both of these men were having a good time and their indiscretions were known about, what was not too well publicized was the turmoil that their marriages were going through.Both of these men paid a heavy toll for promiscuity. The only thing that held their wives in check was that neither wanted to tarnish the presidency. The whole purpose of getting married is to have only one person to share your life with, if that isn't what someone is looking for, why then get married. Besides it's a sin.... unless your belief structure and morals allow for that sort of behavior.

Answer 4

You will pay a heavy price for that lack of security.
Clinton and Kennedy were presidents, it was about the power or money. Come on.... look at "The donald" and " bill gates" they have to throw girls out as well...because of the money.

So what to you have that would attract that kind of attention? Will that belief or those actions, teach you how to be a loving, compassionate spouse one day? I don't think a "trick" will come to your side, while you are dying, so consider the "high road". I don't think that is a wise statement as "wise ***" perhaps.

Answer 5

Well, maybe you're happy, but the other girls and your spouse won't be happy. Extramartial affairs are not a brilliant move. I think stating that Clinton and Kennedy were the wisest men in America is subjective. And even brilliant men do ridiculously stupid things, affairs being one of them. (Clinton has expressed his regret for those actions.)

By not committing yourself to one woman and working at a quality relationship with her, you are selling yourself short and dooming her to a half-life with someone who can never truly love her.

Answer 6

DEPENDS on what kind of a person u r.. and how u want to be remember?

If you do.. be sure to pick the right lady.. if u marry...
and don't ever be wealthy......

she may not be as understanding.. and take u to the cleaners.,...

You must be young.. as u get older and have different relationships.. u may change your mind.. U may find a lady of your dreams... and this will be the further thing from ur mind,,, (cheater, womanizer, slut, male wh***, ) There are a lot of things out there today you can catch and u could be cutting your life short...

Answer 7

You've gotta be kidding. Clinton and Kennedy, the WISEST men of America?!

Wow. If that's the best you got, then my answer is yes. That'll be the Secret to your life.

Have fun when you wake up one day and not know who you are and have no one you can really count on.

I don't mean to be rude... (this is a joke question, I hope.)

Answer 8

I dont know if this answer will qualify as biased since i am female but I would say definately not. Look at it this way, Lets say you have commitment from one woman and fun from 6 on the side. True it adds up to everything, but wouldnt it be great to be able to have it all from one. You could easily have someone who cares about you, supports you and is just as much fun. It is even possible to find a woman who will give you all of that and even is willing to bring in other women. It doesnt have to be on the side that will just make your life complicated as hell and mean you dont have a complete relationship from any of them. If you find a woman who trusts you and who you trusts and most importantly who loves you I am sure she will be willing to help you to explore those interests. No need to exclude her:)

Answer 9

Well depends on the type of person you are to be honest..
But being around girls..after your marriage and when you're in an relationship thats a straight no!
But.There is no secret to a happy life everyone has there own way of being happy.
But in my opinion family is the secret to a happy life..having a job..friends .. and the odd party now and then
Everyone has their own ways of doing particular things
Just have fun!
Enjoy yourself

Answer 10

No my friend. The secret to a happy life is to love and accept yourself for who you are and show that to the world. In return MOST of the world will love you back and see you as cool. The secret to true happiness is the ability to not have to rely on anyone or anything else in this world and yet still have your spirits and feelings high in the air.

Answer 11

I think you mean your "Idols" I do not believe that you will truly have a happy life with girls on the side because if your wife finds out your cheating she will get half of everything and maybe a lil bit more. Then you have the shitty life.