Ladies-do you ever catch men checking you out?

Question

...and does it bother you?

Answer 1

yes a lot but it doesnt really bother me, sometimes gives me a confidence boost ..depending on my mood anyway. its just if 'certain' people are looking it can annoy me.

Answer 2

Sure. It happens a lot.

I don't really mind it...I guess it depends on how I'm being checked out. Once, when I was out to breakfast with my boyfriend, another man (who was clearly with a woman) decided he liked my breasts and was very obvious about looking. Granted, I was not wearing a bra but in 100 degree heat, I didn't want to wear one (I'm not that big...just average). My boyfriend noticed the guy before I did and mentioned it. I just said that the guy didn't have to be so blatantly obvious about it. The woman he was with noticed too...and wasn't too happy.

For the most part, it doesn't bother me. I mean, it's just men's behavior...just like it's human nature for a woman to check out a man. The only time it gets to me is when I'm with my boyfriend and some guy hits on me like he isn't even there. I think that is rude. However, if I'm alone, it can be an ego boost. It makes me feel good to know that other men think I'm attractive. It's all in the way of how it's done.

EMT

Answer 3

I think the majority of women catch guys checking them out all the time. I find it very flattering when a man takes a second look. As a mother of five, it's nice to know that I can still turn a few heads. At the end of the day, though, the only man whose opinion matters to me is that of my husband.

Answer 4

When I was younger, it happened frequently and sometimes I was bothered if they stared or leered. Now, that I am older, I must admit that men do not check me out anymore and that bothers me. Occasionally, I notice a really old man checking me out and that really bothers me and creeps me out.

Answer 5

Yes, often, and I am sure that every woman has had the experience of men talking to you but looking at your cleavage. The only time I feel a little uncomfortable is at business meetings when I see guys checking out my legs under the table when it's important to concentrate on what we are discussing. In town I just find it flattering as long as they don't make stupid comments. Anyway all women must check out men's lunchpacks from time to time, I know I do.

Answer 6

All the time and YES! It does bother me I hate it! My husband notices more than I do I've learned to tune it out. But men can be such pigs. My ole man has had to put more than one dude in his place over that.

Answer 7

yes all the time it dont bother me unless they are a pervert but no its healthy for a man to check out a women even when their married long as they keep hands off why steal a mans human nature from them k-bye

Answer 8

I see men checking me out, and I also check men out it doesn't bother me. We are only human, we will always look at each another,

Answer 9

I am such a sexy woman, that I still am not used to all of the attention that I get from the opposite sex.
I guess due to the fact that I never use my beauty for evil, I have never learned to be totally comfortable with the oggling.
Thanks for asking.

Answer 10

All the time
If they are vulgar and complement me sexually or in a sexually perverse way, hell yeah that bothers me, but if they complement gently or just casually glance than I'm just fine with that, Attention is fun sometimes and a burden at others.

Answer 11

Yeah, a lot. Doesn't really bother me though, nice to know I'm not that horrible to look at =P Guys do make it rather obvious though!