She has help coming from all over, wants more than she can afford, has own place, can't afford, wants others to pay for; has nice car, can't afford, wants others to pay for. The lil money she makes, wants to spend her way on what she wants, and have others pay for neccessities and desires. I say get Real. I have MY own everything and can't take care of two. I do really care, but What's a Bro to do?
2007-08-02 05:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by Dub-G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel. Explain what she is doing. If she cannot comprehend that, then get to stepping. Tell her that you care and what she is doing is selfish and destructive, and that you are leaving. Turn and walk away. We all have our own responsibilities, without adding another's to our pile. Tell her to grow up a little. Life is what WE make it. Not someone else. I wish you luck.
2007-08-02 05:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a reality check...tell her that look I have myself to worry about I cannot pay your way. Tell her she needs to scale down buy a niceish used car and find another apartment because you will have no more of supporting her. Now that she is an adult it is her responsibility to pay for her crap.
2007-08-02 12:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by frapresident 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not going to change. All she will do is practically steal your money if you keep going out with her. Just tell her its over and get the hell out of there.
2007-08-02 12:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep, i would leave her. sounds like she cannot fend for herself, and may be a bit spoiled.
she isn't going to change, and your money is better than paying for fake nails... or frigging hairspray!!! buy urself a Ferrari... or corvette. i'm sure you can spoil ur ride w/ no regrets. and know that ur money went for something flashy and good.
2007-08-02 12:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like any other relationship--once its over you'll get over it. People do it all the time--Leave her alone, time will pass, and you'll be fine.
2007-08-02 12:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by EspysMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new lady. One that acts her age, not her shoe size, to quote Prince.
2007-08-02 12:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the old hag
2007-08-02 12:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you lost your job and need to borrow some money from her........that ought to do it. She will disappear, or if she really loves you, she will jump into high gear to do what ever she can to help you.
2007-08-02 12:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this type of people annoy me. It don't like people who take advantage of others.
2007-08-02 12:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Offkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump her and tell her to get over herself... but you may think dif.
Folow your heart<3
Hope this helps =]
-Calax
2007-08-02 12:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋