2007-08-02 04:20:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
try to seduce her. find games, make romantic things. tell her how proud you are that she is your wife. love her and show it to her every second. respect her and talk to her.
kiss her with passion, touch her the same way. be natural and try to achieve what you want.
it will happen, do not pressure her.just love her so much...
2007-08-02 04:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by ema 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes if you've been in a relationship for a long time things need a little spicing up. if that's the case try several different things like cook her a romantic dinner then run her a nice candlelit bath and wash her hair for her and massage and so on then place rose petals all over the bed with lots of candles lit and some romantic music in background, or if you have children take them out for a day to give mom some own grown up time to do what she wants. sometimes its not the lack of wanting to its just all the other crap going on that makes it hard to get in the mood at that time, try to help her more around the house and let her know you still love her and care how she feels and what she has to deal with!!! it will make a difference.
2007-08-02 04:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bambam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am answering hoping its your own wife...LoL.. Just kidding...
I believe you mean in the beginning...
Some ladies are averse to get physical because of various reasons, fear, past history, their life in parents home, etc.
In order to over come, you must talk to her and try to understand what exactly is the problem. If she feels she can't talk to you take her to a counselor.
If problem is with you then you must consult someone to overcome your fears.
One way or the other the problem needs to be resolved hence go to root of the problem and sort it out altogether.
Best ok f_uck oh sorry luck....
2007-08-05 21:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being affectionate. Holding hands, cuddles, whispers, kisses, moments of affection in the various moments of life (doing dishes, shopping, driving, walking, etc.) are highly important. The type of attention and affection we give someone at the beginning of a relationship. Being a good husband, a man who considers his family as his highest priority in life (financial, love and time). The rest will come of it's own.
2007-08-02 04:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like on a Saturday (if you have kids make sure someone takes them so it will be just you and your wife)... in the morning make her some hot coffee or breakfast! take her shopping(every women loves shopping) .. tell her shes gorgeous and you love her! (hold hands, kiss her) then have some lunch, then ask her if there is anything she would like to do. take her to the park! when its getting dark, have her take a nice bath! then give her a massage, and kiss her. she will get in the mood! and before she comes out, have some wine and out some rose petals on the bed! and nice music! then kiss her slowly and so on! no pressure!
2007-08-02 04:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider ur wife ur gf n then go ahead if ur marriage has been for long time but if it is new u need to consult councellor or talk to ur married but trustworthy frnd overcome ur fears its difficult but not impossible all the best start ur family hey first of all try to find is ur wife is having problem or u?
2007-08-06 00:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by yipee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two don't know how to make a sexual relationship, why did you ever get married!!!!
2007-08-02 04:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Watch the movie Esshwar *Anilkapoor
2007-08-02 22:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by aly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look first of all try impressing her with giving her flowers and getting more involved and then start talking indirectly about starting a family and also ask your parents about it but one day or the other you have to talk about it either u say it or she. marriage is incomplete without sex.
2007-08-02 04:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the "Kamasutra" and many books available on sex. Yes, you can also consult or get counselling from a professional.
2007-08-02 06:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋