im 17 in high school and she's in high we didnt rape in up and now she is pregnant but no one knows but me and her. her parents are going to kill me once they find out.
2007-08-02 04:07:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Now you know why people say not to have sex when you're a teen. There is nothing you can do. It is totally in your girlfriend's hands now. She'll have to talk to her folks and decide whether or not to keep it. If she keeps it, then you're a daddy. Get used to it. If not, then I hope you learned your lesson. Even if you'd used protection this could still happen. If you are not ready to be a dad, then maybe you'd better keep it in your pants.
2007-08-02 04:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a shame children having children.....Neither of you was responsible enough to protect yourselves and now the consequences for your irresponsibility have arrived. The smart thing to do next is talk with her parents, not sure if she should do that on her own or both of you break the news together.
Option 1- Keep the child and become parents
Option 2- Give the child up for adoption
Option 3- Abortion
Good luck in whatever the decision is.....God Bless the unborn
2007-08-02 04:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Go together to tell your (and her) parents.
2. Decide together what you will do.
3. Should you be faced with the responsibility of raising the babe - then suck it up and take that responsibility seriously.
4. Be prepared to face court if that is what her parents decide - you have committed statutory rape; sex with a minor.
You must act now. Good luck.
2007-08-02 14:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a free pregnancy clinic, she needs to have an ultrasound done to make sure there are no medical problems. They'll let you know what your options are. Then when you have a good idea of what the future holds for your child, go to both sets of parents together. You'll be stronger as a team.
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2007-08-02 04:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you cant get arrested she is in basic terms mad there is not any longer something she will do to maintain you far flung from her, in spite of each and every little thing you would be the father of her newborn,and could be in her existence for the subsequent 18+ years, supply her mom time to relax down. to procure her little lady pregnant in spite of each and every little thing even if in the journey that your g/f cries rape you may get in hassle yet usually it dosent flow anywear using fact there is not any information of that and you cant get arrested for statitory rape when you consider which you're in basic terms a year, in step with hazard in basic terms some months older then her, if there became a 4 year or 3 year age distinction then you definately might desire to get in hassle Mtn lady 40 8, if it is so then each and every pregnant teenager, teenager mom, and teenager father in u . s . a . could be in reformatory. if the police officers are called and she or he dose no longer say rape, each and every of the police officers will see are in basic terms a pair of youth who had intercourse and are actually pregnant like something of youth in u . s . a .
2016-10-09 01:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 year old with a 15 year old. I hope her parents press charges against you for statutory rape! What the hell were you two thinking?!
2007-08-02 04:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well be prepared to tell both sets of parents. Don't make up excuses be straight up honest. If you don't have a job, be prepared to get one. When you tell both parents both of you be present. The most important thing after telling them is to get her checked out. Only real advice I can give you is be prepared to grow up, and I mean grow up quickly!! Goodluck!
2007-08-02 07:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st - Get both sets of parents involved. Own up to what both of you did, don't place blame. Don't hide it either (that will make it worse and awkward).
2nd - Support her in any decision that she (or both of you) makes. Go with her to the doctors & be supportive.
They can't kill you, they may try (or say that they will) - but I highly doubt that they will... They just may be extremely angry for a long time.
Good luck
2007-08-02 06:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought my parents would kill me too but they didn't. Trust them and tell them together. Being there will show them how responsible you can be even if you weren't when you got her pregnant.
2007-08-02 06:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi had her baby boy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both her parents and yours. Deal with whatever happens. Get a job and start saving!!!!
2007-08-02 04:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋