my bf want to have sex with me and he asked a lot of times and i always said no but every time he askes and i say no he leaves me for more than a month and never asks about me but when he comes back i go back to him he did this to me more that 7 times does sex worths him hurting me that much i don't wanna have sex it just scares me
2007-08-02 03:04:55 · 5 answers · asked by shatha f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All he wants from you is sex. He obviously doesn't care about you or respect you or your feelings. No, it's not worth him hurting you. If he really cared he would understand and stick with you. He's being selfish and immature by leaving for more than a month just because he's not getting his way.
I'm so glad you didn't give in. I think it's time to leave him for a change but permanently and find someone who will respect you and wait for you.
Your boyfriend doesn't deserve you.
2007-08-02 03:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. It sound like he only wants you for one thing. STOP TAKING HIM BACK! You have clearly let him think he can do whatever he wants and you will take him back- why would he change. If he really loves you he will wait. If not you don't want to have sex with someone you doesn't care anymore about you that. I bet if you did have sex with him he would be done with you after that anyway. Either way it doesn't sound like the relationship is going anywhere at least in can be over and you can have some dignity.
2007-08-02 03:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by em 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt realize it well I can enlighten you now ... He wants you only for sex .. you choose now; either to be his thing or his valuable person, which apparently seem that he would go eagerly to apply the first option.
Fly away to someone appreciates your being rather than abusing your thoughts and body!
Experience is my sweet bitter tutor.
2007-08-02 03:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sara007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. U sound too young for sex anyway. Mainly men only have one thing in their minds, but keep it for themselves. He is putting pressure on u, and u obviously dont want it. He has only that thing in his mind, so if he has in his mind, u must be pretty, so dump him, and date some one who wont put pressure on u, and will wait 'till ur ready.
2007-08-02 03:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Meh. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then don't do it! He's obviously only out for one thing. Don't give in to him. It's not a good enough reason to. Stay true to yourself.
2007-08-02 03:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋