Recently I have moved in an apartment with my brother and his friend. Ever since the evening I have moved in, me and his friend have totally hit it off and hung out every night since and have such a great, honest and open friendship. Last night he asked if we could try the whole dating thing, and I am totally up for it. I am just wondering if it is a good idea to get invovled with someone you live with!
Thanks:)
2007-08-02 02:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could work very well, I know tons of people who have gone out with their roomates... but are you sure your brother is good with his sister dating his friend? (especially when both are living in the same apartment!)
lol
Good luck
2007-08-02 02:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Banned 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does your brother have to say about this? If he's happy with it then absolutely, go for it. Just remember that this is his friend and if you guys break up you might affect the relationship that him and your brother have. Also, it will be awkward living in the same apartment as your ex, so the chances are you will have to move out if you break up. Hey! Don't worry about that though! Have a good time with him and hopefully it goes well!
2007-08-02 02:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by moi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
growing to be to be roommates will harm and confuse the youngsters even extra effective than one in all you shifting out. inspite of the incontrovertible fact that, while you're such large acquaintances and ought to stand to proceed living mutually, then are not getting a divorce. A divorce, no remember how "solid" and "amicable" is devastating to a new child. don't be selfish. You promised to love and look after the different individual for the the remainder of your existence. you're curiously in a coarse patch now so which you have desperate to do what you like and divorce. It would not artwork that way now. you have babies and you need to think of of them first. till there is actual or emotional abuse you mustn't even evaluate a divorce. So, suck it up, positioned your guy or woman petty thoughts aside for one and get some counseling. you have 12 years till now all your babies are grown, so as that must be loads of time to artwork it out.
2016-10-13 11:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha.. it's all depends actually.. the benefit of that is you get to know him more, understand, spend more time. this is due to you spend hell lot of time together, there is no faking in the process.. mostly boys do fake it. the att and behav. the disadvantage.. you will get bored very fast.. there is no fun when you meet each other.. at least you get to separate is better.. not very long but just for a while.. another thing is that, your private time will be taken.. you don't have much of your personal time as you are always together.. anyway the choice is up to you.. good luck!
2007-08-02 02:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you could go ahead and start dating. since you are already living together you do not have to worry about the "move in" phase of the relationship. Be weary though if things do work out one of you is going to have to move out due to awkwardness of the environment. Think things through before you react, OH and check with your brother to make sure he is alright with it since it was his friend first.
2007-08-02 02:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and the guy want to date then go for it. The only problem is your brother. How would he feel about you dating his freind. Trust me I have brothers and they are so protective of me their friends can't even tell me hello.
If this guy really likes you and your brother is ok with it just look at living under the same roof with him as a bonus...
2007-08-03 06:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only do you have to think of that, but you have to consider your brothers feelings in this too, because he might not like you dating his friend.
you may get sick of dating a person that you live with. You can do it, but make sure you don't spend toooo much time together, and make sure that your brother gets an equal amount of time with him, since it is his friend.
Hope everything works out!
2007-08-02 02:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If both of u like each other, y not? But make sure your brother is okay with it. U don't want them to fight, don't u?
Good luck! ;)
2007-08-02 02:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by farizah_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? I moved in with my boyfriend after 2 months of dating and so far so good...
2007-08-02 02:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse dont worry...it is the best idea...but only if you know the person very well...i mean his past and all kinds stuff...if you know everything bout him then there is no problem at all...take care and enjoy your relationship...
2007-08-02 02:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋