My uncle is 50 and never been married , I never really knew why, and I just didn't pay attention. My father( his brother) told me because I had asked. When he was around 23-24, . He met this foriegn women, she was Italian. He was madly in love with her and thaught she was the best thing that ever happen to him because she broke his shell and pulled him out of his depression. They had been going out for 8 months and he was thinking of proposing. Well out of nowwhere she dipped out and took my uncles money and went back to Italy. My father told me that they found out that everything was planned. The whole relationship, was false. She was a con. From day 1 to the end. I first I didn't believe it, but it is true. He never saw her again, but he did end up receiving the 20 thousands dollars that she had stolen. Thats the most horrible thing I have ever heard, no wonder why he has never been married.
2007-08-02 02:13:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because that woman was a swindler, doesn't mean every other woman out there is into swindling too.
your uncle seems to have put every woman in the same category, and i guess that "once bitten, twice shy" is a good phrase to describe him.
meanwhile, i hope he is living a happy, productive life. i'm also 50, and single.. i enjoy it to be quite honest!
take care!
2007-08-02 02:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom told me of my uncle alone all his life, too. He was in his 20's and took in an unwed mother and her baby for about 3 years, falling madly in love with them both. She moved out unexpectedly and married someone else. Poor guy! And he was sooo nice! He died alone still in his 60's. Mom said he made good money and provided them with everything. How sad!!! People don't know how deeply they can affect a person's life, do they?!
2007-08-02 09:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who have hurt you in the past cant continue to hurt you now- unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. your past is past, nothing will change it. you are only hurting yourself with your bitterness. for your own sake, learn from it and then let it go. every experience in life is an experience worth having. life with all its limitations, obstacles and pain is still a treasure.
2007-08-02 09:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by SM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Unfortunately this type of trap, rouse criminal, trickery happens every day and , lonely ,needy men and women fall into it.
I just cannot imagine the emotional pain associated with this kind of betrayal.
The women and men who use others in this manner are nothing short on socially sick minded criminals, with no morals and belong in prison.
2007-08-02 09:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, damn. That's cold when people **** with your heart and emotions for money.
2007-08-02 09:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋