Wouldn't You Rather Be Poor & Have Girls Like You For You?

Question

Well, Im 27..and still single!! Im an IT tech&very successful money wise. Yet obviously girls only want me for my money now. You see if I was poor, then girls would have liked me for me (i think thats how slobs work it). I hate being successful. Now why did the generation before me and others tell me to stay back at school&study/work hard? It never paid off as i'm a very lonley man & all i sleep with is my money :( ..and in life there's no guarantee that i'll find someone someday so dont say that. So why did those people tell me a lie about succeeding in life? :(

Answer 1

stop being so mopey! no wonder you dont have a girl! anyway try not telling ppl about your successfullness untill later and then maybe youll find someone...

Answer 2

I think you're lying to yourself. If you're in IT girls want you for your intelligence; if nothing else they need someone to work on their computer :) Girls don't want good guys at 27, they sort of are trying or starting to come around to the idea but aren't entirely sure what they're doing with it. It still seems like the right thing to do.

So go over some girls house and set up her network and give her administrative privileges. If you aren't comfortable with being successful then yes, you will attract girls that want you for your money. And you'll need those girls to feel better about who you are, which is sad. Leave those girls alone and get another tech girl, even if it just a friendship that doesn't lead to anything that will soothe some of your paranoia. Some of them are sort of hot too.

Answer 3

Hi.

I'm sure you are a very worthwhile individual, and meanwhile you're beating yourself up because you're successful?

Be thankful you ARE successful, and that you don't have to struggle financially.

Meanwhile, maybe you're not getting out there and mixing with people enough? Have you ever thought of joining a gym or taking some kind of class? Swimming, karate.. etc....

Or joining a singles group, if there is one in your area?

What about your guy friends? get out and do things with them.......

Just because you are successful, doesn't mean YOU aren't "in there somewhere" too.... your sucess isn't what you are all about... there is a lot more to YOU the person, than your job/career.

I'm sure that someday you will meet someone with whom you feel a connection. Ask girls OUT! Dating more than one person is just fine -- and sometimes we meet others through our dates or friends.

It's a wonderful thing you have a good start in your career life. You're young, and given time, you will certainly find someone worthy of a nice relationship.

Take care...

Answer 4

Sounds like 2 questions here. So first, its better being unhappy with money then unhappy and poor. Second, women want a strong (rich, confident, whatever might be considered strong) to provide a good environment to raise off-spring in. Insures their genes get passed on to the next generation.

Answer 5

Gee, here we are struggling to pay our bills and deal with the tradgedys of life like the bridge in Minnesota, and you are whining about being successful???

One word of advice, count your blessings, pray for the people and the families who lost their lives in the bridge collapse in Minnesota, and stop your whining, if you are so successful, start a fund, for the families that are not as fortunate as you are and help pay for some of their costs that they need help with to start rebuilding their lives.

Life is way to short, please do not call the working class "slobs".

Wake up every morning, and count your blessings that God gave you another day to live! That is what I did, then I turn on the tv, and see this! Mother of God, please help those affected by the bridge collapse in Minnesota!

Answer 6

you have it backwards "money wise" it should be "wise with money" its not what your worth but how you are worth it.
try things that have class but are not classy, home made dinner taken to the beach so you can watch the sun set hac class rather then a five star restaurant which is classy, tha later shows off your money while the beach shows off your wits. Good conversation can be better then whiping out your wallet but you dont have to be poor, so be creative when it comes to dateing.

Answer 7

Being rich and succesful doesn't change your chances of finding someone right for you, who likes you for who you are. the chances of finding that person are the same weither your rich or poor. the diffrence is, when your rich, you attract lots of other extra people who just want you for your money. you have to find a way to sort through all those money beggers for someone who truly likes you

Answer 8

l dont think you want to be poor it's hard to be poor i would have girls like me just who i am girls that's like you for your money and what you got thats a Gold digger!!! player i think you should find a girl that dont like you for money that only like you for who are!!!! and that's for real!

Answer 9

why you are judging on other people with out knowing them, are they all have money too or not? have you ever asked your self about this?? If you think it's all about money, YOU ARE WRONG,
what happened to your confidence??!!!

Answer 10

don't mention you work in IT. say Barnes n Noble or something.

the goal is to find someone who likes you, not your wallet. diversify your dating arenas. if you only go to that bar on the corner where everyone knows your a high roller, go to a art gallery or plant shopping.