Yesterday me and my boyfriend went out my mother knew I was with him and didnt have a problem my boyfriend doesnt like the fact of sending me home by myself on the bus so he stopped by his father's job to get some money to ride the bus home with me my mother called me and cursed me out and said to come home I had explained the situation to her and she still continued to curse at me now she says I cant go anywhere else with him and he cant come and see me am I wrong to have went with him he doesnt like me to travel alone on public transportation because there are weirdo's out there am I wrong
2007-08-02 02:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Poet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When I got home it was still daylight he was looking out for me I think what he was doing right
2007-08-02 02:26:27 · update #1
I don't understand at all why your mom is angry - is it because you rode the bus with your boyfriend, or because you were late getting home? I don't understand why she'd be angry at you riding the bus with him, when she's fine with him being alone with you in other places. You didn't do anything wrong, and I think your mother is definitely over-reacting. Maybe you can ask your mom about keeping in contact thru cell phones so that she knows you're safe at all times. If this happened in the past day or two, I think she'll eventually calm down and you two can have a civilized talk. My mom can get really angry over very small things also, but in a few hours, she'll calm down, and things get worked out pretty quickly. Hopefully, you or your boyfriend can try to talk to your mom if she is still angry a few days later.
2007-08-02 02:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by CherryPie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you arrive home late as a result of him insisting he accompany you home? If so, apologize to your mother and ask that she consider giving you another chance. Parents worry when their kids come home late. You also don't say how old you are and how old he is - perhaps the age difference is too big and your mom isn't comfortable with it and she doesn't think his intentions are good.
Time will tell if they are or not.
2007-08-02 10:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you cant be blamed and also ur mothr too......always mothers are like this to their daughters...everywhere in the world.You cant blame her....but dont bother...and try not to do things that irritate her.I mean dont repeat what you did.Atleast you remember that she brought you up and has been closely watching you grow up! She will understand things slowly Just give her some time....be nice to her...and love her....
2007-08-02 09:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by sijish_ms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should come by your house more often so that your mom can see that he is more than she thinks he is. Sounds like your mom is in denial that youre growing up. She'll get over it.
2007-08-02 09:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your mother was upset by something else entirely, and took it out on you.
give her a couple days, and ask her if you can talk... let her know you don't understand why she's upset... ask her what you can do to help make your relationship better? maybe that would help?
sometimes we are a little grouchy!
2007-08-02 09:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks he is a bad guy? You should just talk to her
2007-08-02 09:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥M♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋