ok. so i met this girl a week ago, we started out great, and she realy seems into me and the other way around. the prob is she's 21 and im 17, i lied to her tellin her dat im 20 because i do look and act more mature den my age. we met in beijing china, but i have to go back to the states in late aug to study. she thought it over and decided that a relationship wasn' the best decision because she wants a man who'll be by her. she's really traditional, like she's looking to marry her nex bf? the thought of marriage is a lil scary to me right now, but i really like this girl rite now, and i noe she lieks me, i told her i'd come back durin xmas and summer holidays, and i think we can develop becuase i am already carrer and financially stable and will return to china in a couple years...i jus don't know what to do right now...
2007-08-02 02:02:42 · 9 answers · asked by stephen y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't imagine you'd have a good relationship that is based on a lie. You are not who she thinks you are. Don't play around with her emotions. Leave her alone.
2007-08-02 02:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really nothing you can do but leave being friends for now. Sorry. Keep in touch via email and when you return in couple years, if she's still single, you can enter into the relationship more mature and more stable in your career and life. Good luck!
2007-08-02 02:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's going to work, I mean it's china to america, usually long distance relationships means Florida to New Jersey not all the way on the other side of the world practically
2007-08-02 02:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by hawaiicatlynblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young under the dangerous age! Why? Though you are financially stable, think about for future. Tell that lady that you like her, If she likes you.. she's gonna wait for you. Age doesn't matter. Don't rush or you will regret.
Take my advice and you will be fine. Explore the world and then settle down.
2007-08-02 02:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by vivs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are so mature try using "then" instead of "den". no just keep in constant contact like emails all day and phone calls and she probably wont hook up with anyone then shell be all yours during your next visit! oh yeah and tell her the truth about your age only immature people lie!
2007-08-02 02:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by xo_electriclime_kiwis_xo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are no longer in China, perhaps date people wherever you are now.
long distance relationships are stressful!
when you go back to China, maybe you and this gal will reconnect... time will tell...
i don't think it's a good idea to isolate yourself for two years waiting until you go back to China, to be honest... LIVE your life, especially while you're young.
and take care.
2007-08-02 02:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she's not trying to marry you to come to the states? and once here she'll dump you?? let it go for what it was you'll meet someone else here that you can have a relationship with if she's persistant about the marriage thing then i would let her go
2007-08-02 02:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by marianne l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before your aunt leaves ask if you can take them to a near by park, this will get them out side and out of trouble.
2016-05-21 00:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither do I mane
2007-08-02 02:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋