What is my cat trying to do ???

Question

I am male my cat is female --
I love my cat like any guy would love his pet ..I never gave her any kind of wrong impression...she is about 3 months old,,

she is always looking for 'nipple' on my body to suckle..and in doing so wets my shirt ....But lately she has focused her attention on my crotch area to suckle....

hmmm I dont know if she is innocent or if is she indirectly trying to tell me to get her a 'boyfriend' cat ...oh well I would appreciate some suggestions ..thanks !

Kg22 --you are out of your mind for even thinking that !! I dont know why my cat is going for my crotch ...that is why I am posting this question ....duh

Thank you Yellow-tufu for confirming that I am not the only one with this problem !!

Answer 1

HEY STUDENT!!!!
Don't listen to anyone thinking that U r perverted. That's bullshit. I've had cats my whole life.

1) The kitten is looking for a nipple becoz she's accustomed to her mom's nipples. U can get her a baby bottle and put cat milk in it for her which U'll find at the pet store.

2) She goes on your private area when you're sitting down becoz it's a warm and soft area. B4 cats lay down anywhere, they have to fluff the area by digging their nails softly into it to make sure that it's as comfortable as possible. It's like buffing a pillow b4 U lay your head on it...if U see what I mean. This has nothing sexual whatsover.

3) Final advise, if she's not spaded, U should do it as soon as possible bcoz when she gets older, she'll be in heat and she'll then get very annoying by running away after male cats. But she's in no heat right now, she's still baby.
Good luck

Answer 2

Cats often do this if they were weaned too early...my cat used to do this (not on the private area tho)...and she stopped after a few years...try to latch her onto something else like a soft blanket or a soft toy...shes not doing anything "rude" its just a comfort thing like shes back with her mum

Answer 3

hey, dont feel strange... she is probably just feeling safe and needing comforted. just move her to a "better spot" or gently stop her from doing it. She is only 12 weeks old, so she probably isnt ready to lose the comfort she needs. Believe it or not, I got a kitten at 4 weeks and bottle raised her. She still (at 6 months) looks for her bottle during stressful times.

Answer 4

My friends cat did the same thing if it sits on your lap it will start to knead your belly and look for nipples. Your best bet is to just put it on the floor and say NO BAD KITTY.

Answer 5

She is doing this behavior to tell you she loves you, you make her feel safe. Cats do not think like Male Humans do. Your cats just saying thank you. I'm female and my cats are both females and both lick me, toes, ears, nose, lips it doesn't mean their trying to say i want to be more then just your cat.. there saying thank you for feeding me, loving me and petting me.

Answer 6

maybe you should get her things to play with (like a [fake] mouse or perhaps that string that has a feather on it (which you twirl around and they chase)

however you should tell her that this is not ok (yell at her when she does this and push her away) and hopefully she will get the point; part of training if you do not tell her it is not ok she will just keep doing this

Answer 7

she's suckling...what most young cats do and older ones when they "knead" and feel content. She's not doing anything sexual, lol. She feels safe with you!

Answer 8

i think your lying. i believe the suckling part, alot of cats do this especially if they were taken away from their mothers too young, but they usually suck on fingers, not our actual nipples or your man parts. unless your purposely directing her to those areas, if you are your extremely sick.

Answer 9

You had me until you got to the "crotch" part. Very funny.

Answer 10

cats have urges too, let it