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2007-08-02 00:12:01 · 17 answers · asked by Emperor Insania Says Bye! 5 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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simply put, show them love if they cross our path

2007-08-02 00:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by karen s 4 · 2 0

Great question. If someone can answer that, they are brilliant.

Most of us can only do it one person at a time, if we even take the time. If you do volunteer work for churches or shelters that provide free meals, you can find a lot of lonely people eating there. Perhaps you can take a moment to talk to some of them?

I work in a large city, so I do see lots of homeless people on the street. They are very lonely. I can't give them all money, but I do try to at least say hello and treat them as humans since so many try to ignore them. And there have been times I have actually set and talked with some. Sometimes, all a lonely person needs is someone to listen.

2007-08-02 07:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 2 0

No, this is not as simple as just spending some time talking to them. That is all very nice - indeed, very useful in this matter - but it does not solve the problem of loneliness. Sometimes it IS about lack of relationships, but sometimes it's learned helplessness (nothing changes/matters - why bother?), self-hatred, poor upbringing, or any number of things.

The truth is that the lonely individual in these latter cases must realize his own problems, must look inside rather than outside to overcome them. Just as the external world may influence one's mind, one's mind may influence the external world. By all means, be kind and attentive to these individuals, particularly allowing them to tell you about their lives and their condition. Recognize, however, that a large part of it is out of your hands.

2007-08-03 03:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 1 0

i would believe you can do nothing, they are lonily because they will not seek out friendships.

as for lonily married couples, again, if they are not friendly to one another, perhaps it is not possible to correct.

truth is there is a fix without some of the radical solutions given, but it would require working with the folks that don't want hugs, with people who don't like to socialize and so forth.

you have opened the door on the dilema facing those who see friends suffering and can't get them to help themselves. Without an interest in their own life to fix a problem, no-one externally can do it.

2007-08-02 07:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by magnetic_azimuth 6 · 1 0

1. Say (O Muhammad (Peace be upon him)): "He is Allâh (SWT), (the) One. The Self-Sufficient Master, (Whom all creatures need, He neither eats nor drinks) He begets not, nor was He begotten. And there is none co-equal or comparable unto Him. (Quran Chapter 112)
2. He is the Merciful and the Compassionate, the Guardian and the True Guide, the Just and the Supreme Lord, the Creator and the Watchful, the First and the Last, the Knowing and the Wise, the Hearing, and the Aware, the Witness and the Glorious, the Able and ' the Powerful. (Holy Quran).
3. He is the Loving and the Provider, the Generous and the Benevolent, the Rich and the Independent, the Forgiving and the Clement, the Patient and the Appreciative, the Unique and the Protector, the Judge and the Peace. (Holy Quran example). The question of Allah's (SWT) 'God' existence has preoccupied men's minds for many centuries. Those who believe in Allah (SWT) 'God' seem to agree that the limited finite human intelligence cannot prove the existence of the infinite boundless of Allah (SWT) 'God'. It can only illustrate or demonstrate his existence to the satisfaction of the curious human mind.
Those who deny Allah's (SWT) 'God' claim to rely on science, philosophy, or special theories of knowledge. Their arguments are sometimes inapplicable, sometimes irrelevant, always complex, and often incomprehensible. However, the developed mind will find its way to Allah (SWT) 'God'. Failure to find the way does not mean that there is no way. Denial of reality does not make it unreal

2007-08-02 07:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by irumporayar 3 · 0 5

Ship them all off to a deserted island with limited resources. They will be forced to work together to survive, and will build long lasting meaningful relationships. If they don't they will die. Either way the world will have no more lonely people.

2007-08-02 07:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by juan_a_climax 2 · 1 2

Someone has said thet if u r nice to otherz thn they will be nice to u n u'll ve a gud life..........so if we see these simple sayings n try to ponder over them thn they r really the true ones......
so if someone is lonely......thn first try to take out the reason tht why he is so lonely if we r not.....is he/she is depressed or wht or if he thinks tht he can never be wid someone......thn for these lonely ppl u must be caring....try to encourage them for some gud things....tell them the true meaning of love....life...friends......persuade them truly tht they r not lonely we r wid them.....spend some very moments wid them......n thn see if u will truthfully be wid them for some time n will take out the lonely thing frm their hearts....thn not only they but u'll also feel much lightened n happy........after all god help those who help others......!!
n yeah i've really practiced it by myself wid one of my lonely frd n yes it worked out......!!!
Actually there can be diff lonely ppl....like those who r poor or sit on the streets to earn some money or otherz like u knw frm ur frds or relatives who ve enough money but still they feel as if they r lonely but this can only be coz of some depression or hesitation so we can talk to them as wht i ve said above.....
yeah but abt poor ppl.......give some money to them even a dollar or jus say hello to them or if u ve bought some fruits thn give them some........as a result u'll only get some love n prayers be them n will create a feeling in them tht they r not lonely we r there to help them.....!!

2007-08-02 07:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

WE, can't do anything about ALL of them as individuals. BUT, we can befriend as many as we can. ALL they need is for just ONE person to show them that they matter and that SOMEONE cares enough about them to simply SHARE a little bit of your time with them.

Raji the Green Witch

2007-08-02 09:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 1 0

Legalize prostitution.

2007-08-02 07:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

free hugs sign

2007-08-02 07:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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