Relationships are always centered on sex, I've never been big into sex as a motivator for finding someone (who would I find, a nympho?) just kidding but you get the point. It's never about finding someone with good morals or intelligence (although those points are talked up endlessly by hypocrites) it's all about a good *******. People want the other traits only as an after thought but will lead a lonely sensitive guide all the way to shame and rejection.
2007-08-01 18:50:19 · 8 answers · asked by mrfatalistic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can see how some in the topic have made this mistake, the fact that women like this question (they lie through their asses) and that it put as ? at the end of my question (from a man?) but yes, I am a guy, a man, a male.
I'm pretty sure some of the responses will switch from consoling me to me being out for pity now, but that just shows how the hive mind works.
2007-08-01 19:34:06 · update #1
I know, it's quite sad. My respect for people plummets daily. Luckily, there are still people out there who DO care about good morals and intelligence. Like myself.
2007-08-01 18:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Gornographic Headache Machine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I am sick and tired of hearing my guy friends talk about sex and not just them every guy I meet, all they want to do is talk about sex, it gets so old. I have never really liked sex, I want a girl who will love me and who I will love and then if it comes up later on I will make love, but I will not just have sex. I was a virgin till I was 21 and I wish I stayed that way until I found the girl that I would marry. Its not every guy who thinks about sex all the time, I know a couple of them who feel the same way I do, so if it's that important to you, then you got to just weed out all the sex perves and find a good man who will love you first.
2007-08-01 18:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the problem. Sex isn't about making love anymore. All men want is to have sex and even then if the sex is good the rest doesn't matter. Relationships have nothing to do with sex. Making love is a major part and necessity of a relationship.
2007-08-01 19:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with you on the sex part. It may take a little longer for you to hook up with the right person, but they are definitely out there, just do not feel as though you have to rush, there are other folks such as yourself out there who likewise have not found the type of person that they want yet. Sounds as though you are gaging your entire life on some bad experiences. I love the way that you think and someone else will also.
2007-08-01 18:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only a part of a healthy relationship. If you don't have the intelligence, communication, compromise, common goals and morals, the relationship will not last.
2007-08-01 18:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all people think about sex when talking about relationships. maybe you've met the wrong people. seek the right one and you'll see. and by the way. sex is part of a relationship although it is not a basis for having a long lasting relationship.
2007-08-01 18:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is your only option at immortality. Its probably the only instinct man has and you ask why its about sex. Everything is about sex.
2007-08-01 18:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Strike2? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight up you dont want anything to do with it
2007-08-01 18:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋