what can i do to get this guy to like me? ive been talking to him alot and everything.and i know y'all are gonna say "be yourself" i need more than that.
2007-08-01 18:44:44 · 20 answers · asked by atrain_baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you like him and be brave enough to accept rejection. He just may like you back but other than waiting around and hoping he'll holla at you first is pretty risky. You got to be bold and be a mover and a shaker if you want something. Desire without works is fruitless sweety.
2007-08-01 18:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE someone like you. All you can do is yes...be yourself...flirt a little and take an interest in who he is. Anything else would be being fake in order to get a guy which is just pathetic and never works for long. Even if you get the guy that way, you won't keep him for long because he'll soon realize what you did to get him is not who you really are.
2007-08-02 01:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one, most of the time people hide there feelings for someone, and there is no promise that he will like you the way you want him to. Best you can do is express your feelings for him and let nature take its course. Be open with your friend. He may already like you but he is affraid to say anything. Maybe you are meant to be only friends. Remember you can't force nature. Good Luck
2007-08-02 01:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do to make someone like you, either they will or they won't. Do yourself a favor, stop trying so hard and just try to see yourself as a great person who is worthy of love from a great guy, whomever that guy may be.
2007-08-02 01:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't force him to like you, but if he does you can try to pull it out of him.
Talk to him, if he is shy then this is a must.
Joke around with him a lot.
After a while, maybe make physical contact with him, just as simple as lightly touching his arm while in conversation.
2007-08-02 01:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Cliff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it important to "get this guy to like you?"
First off...you can't make anyone like anyone.
If it's being noticed by him...ask yourself why you like him and why you want to be noticed by him?
Is he the only male specimen on earth and therefore you must compete with the rest of us humanoids for his attention...or are you limiting your horizons to just this one guy?
If he doesn't notice you...perhaps he has the freedom to choose whom he likes and whom he doesn't???
Watch him closely. What is his style in girls? Are you them? What about him makes you want him to like you? Is it popularity or the fact that he is cute?
Popular people are really the ones a good girl wants or needs. They (popular men) tend to pick up girls, use them and dump them. Is this the forte' you'd like to add to your profile in life? If so...act like the women he goes after. Its got no long term commitment.
If it is just that you think he is cute...if he's not paying attention, do an about face and there are sooo many cute guys in this world who just might find you attractive and interesting to notice you.
The type of guys that notice you without you having to go after them to notice you...are the type of guys you should start with. The other dingos...aren't meant for you.
You don't want to be someones one night stand...it's not fun.
Instead, like you. Find out what you like doing and what you want to become and go after the dreams for your life that will build you up and bring you success.
Guys will notice you...and one of them or more may come up to you and the both of you will have a great time!
As Tyra said to Clay Aiken today...she did everything to get this guys attention...and he wouldn't give her the time of day. Today she is not only wealthy, she's great looking, a national model and talk show host...!!! Eat your heart out Arturo...whatever his name was. She did for herself...and today she can have anyone she wants. She got life, wealth and self!!!!
2007-08-02 02:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by cadvadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly by talking to him you are gettin to know him and he's gettin to know you. you cannot make someone like you. I would keep talkin to him and maybe hang out a couple times and something may grow from there or you might find out something that bugs you about him. never rush things especially if they aren't meant to be.
2007-08-02 01:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jen22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you, don't trouble yourself over him. Or maybe he does like you and he just isn't that foward. Ask him out, don't wait for him to make the first move.
2007-08-02 01:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B patient and stay the same. He'll like u so sooon. Give it somtime. Noone can like another person in minutes!!
2007-08-02 01:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you like him. Don't just send hints let him know. Don't beat around the bush when it comes to guys.
If he says he doesn't think of you like that then just stay friends. :)
â¥Kat
2007-08-02 01:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋